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Tuesday 03/07/2006 8:27:10am
Name: Loie
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Remembering Eleanor still brings tears to my eyes, but at the same time smile on my face. Everytime there is a Buklod meeting, I can't help but think that Eleanor and Clint would have been such a happy addition to the Buklod Organization. Our Holy Supper just passed and I found myself remembering her and thinking how lucky that she has finished her journey knowing she remained true to her membership.
Her birthday is coming up in a couple of weeks....I remember how she made such a big deal about her birthday. She made sure that everyone is in on the celebration. I miss her infectious smile. I miss her corny jokes. I miss her.....I still miss you, BB!
Wednesday 02/22/2006 1:03:30pm
Name: Cherry L. Villena
Locale: Oslo, Norway, Dist. Of Northern Europe..
E-Mail: cherry_louv@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Condolence po...

May God always bless your family...

ur sis in faith...
sis. Cherry Villena
Tuesday 01/10/2006 9:36:55am
Name: family member
Locale:  
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences The new year came, and I looked back on 2005. I re-lived the agony, sadness, empitness I felt upon hearing of my cousin's untimely passing. I still think of her often; sometimes I do it unconsciously. I've had many dreams of Eleanor showing up to one of our church activities. I continue to thank her for leaving such a lasting impression on those who knew her. She has taught me to cherish life and truly show those whom I love how much they mean to me. Life is precious, as it has been said numerous times. All it takes is a blink of an eye for someone to leave us; I personally can't risk taking anyone I love for granted--- in Eleanor's remembrance.
Saturday 12/31/2005 7:49:11am
Name: Joan Solitario
Locale: Long Beach, CA
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Before the year ends, I just wanted to express that until now and for a very long time, Eleanor is thought of and will always be remembered...
Thursday 12/29/2005 11:47:55pm
Name: Jensine
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: SingNo1slistning@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences it's ate eleanor and kuya clint's TO-BE wedding next saturday. and im sure it would have been the most beautiful wedding everr.<3
Thursday 12/29/2005 5:32:51pm
Name: Ronnel Sioson
Locale: Henderson, NV
E-Mail: jarhead1914@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Though, Eleanor was a mere acquintance and our paths crossed but for a brief moment during some of the KADIWA gatherings, I remember her as someone who could light up a room with her smile. My deepest sympathy and regards for your loss. The world is a lesser place without her. God bless.
Wednesday 12/21/2005 8:13:29am
Name:  
Locale: Mexico City
E-Mail: fcej@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Apostle Paul said: If I live, it will be for Christ, and if I die, I will gain even more. I don’t know what to choose. I could keep on living and doing something useful. It is a hard choice to make. I want to die and be with Christ, because that would be much better. (Philippians 1:21-23 CEV)
Thursday 10/20/2005 8:16:15pm
Name: Kathy Siech
Locale: PRA International
E-Mail: siechkathy@praintl.com
Thoughts/Condolences I think about Eleanor often, and when I viewed the video with her City of Hope co-workers I saw how valuable work relationships are. Beautiful thoughts and remembrances for a beautiful, fun, and very smart girl
Monday 10/17/2005 3:51:48pm
Name:  
Locale:  
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Since your passing nothing has been the same. It would be selfish for me to say this but I wish you were still here to help us through all that we're going through. I miss you so much Ate...
Thursday 10/06/2005 10:42:57am
Name: Laura Alvarado
Locale:  
E-Mail: lalvarado@coh.org
Thoughts/Condolences My deepest condolences to Eleanors family and to Clint.

I worked with Eleanor her whole time at The City of Hope, it was always a joy to see her eyes light up as she spoke very lovingly of her parents and Clint. In the past year we would go to lunch and talk often her joy at her upcoming wedding and her love for Clint would always put a smile on my face.

I think of Eleanor as not gone but always smiling with her eyes at us from above.
Monday 09/12/2005 4:54:25pm
Name: Hazel
Locale: Phoenix, AZ
E-Mail: zelian_14@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I don't know or really remember when I met Eleanor but I do remember that she was one of the district officers that came to Phoenix to visit us. She was very nice and pretty and showed great concern and care to her fellow officers here in the Locale of Phoenix. My condolences and prayers are with you Eleanor and your family po. Take care.
Monday 09/12/2005 3:26:49pm
Name: Nelia Silverio
Locale: Belair, Makati City
E-Mail: nellia_dee@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences My deepest symphaties and condolences for Eleanor's family especially for Bobby and Ine.
Wednesday 09/07/2005 5:22:43am
Name: Jen Hebreo
Locale:  
E-Mail: jen_hebreo@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I love you Eleanor and I think about you all the time. Thanks for the great memories!
Tuesday 09/06/2005 8:27:57pm
Name: Bambi dela Merced
Locale: Bel Air , Philippines
E-Mail: tinderoako@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences
Thursday 09/08/2005 4:44:40pm
Name: April joy
Locale: montclair/riverside
E-Mail: april_j0y@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences ate eleanor was a role model to me. i only knew her for a couple of years but she made an impact in my life. i only found out of her death while in bootcamp. it is hard for me to be lieve that when i finaly come home she won't be there. i'll miss ate eleanor but i know that God blessed her because now she is able to rest and won't have to endure through anymore hardships...
Thursday 09/08/2005 4:43:29pm
Name: Liro & Gloria Gomez
Locale: Sunrise, Florida
E-Mail: litogomez@bellsouth.net
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest sympathy to the Fermin & Dela Merced Family.
 
Wednesday 09/07/2005 5:48:48pm
Name: Lito & Gloria Gomez
Locale: Sunrise, Florida (Ft. Lauderdale)
E-Mail: litogomez@bellsouth.net
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest sympathy to Bobby & Ine and to the family circle.
Wednesday 09/07/2005 5:01:46pm
Name: Janice Cabaysa
Locale: none
E-Mail: chefjnice@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember her smile and exuberance. Eleanor always had a light about her that just shined. It makes me wonder why God would save me and yet take someone like her away so abruptly. I think we all have a path and hers is with God up above. One thing is for sure, Eleanor will be missed because of who she was and how she carried herself, but also how she brought out the best in everyone that she knew.
Tuesday 09/06/2005 2:33:53am
Name: Richie & Kelly dela Merced
Locale: Bel-Air, Philippines
E-Mail: kathleen_delamerced@yahoo.com

Thoughts/Condolences

Though miles and oceans have kept us apart, Eleanor is always near us in our hearts and minds. We treasure the short time we had with her and are truly blessed to have been touched by such a kind and loving soul. Our thoughts and prayers are with Tito Bobby, Tita Ine and cousins as well as the entire Fermin and dela Merced family who are sorely missing her at this time.
Monday 09/05/2005 5:24:31am
Name: Tessie and Ruben Cusipag
Locale: Toronto, Ontario CANADA
E-Mail: balita@sympatico.ca
Thoughts/Condolences I could not help but shed some tears. Eleanor JR, is my niece, her mother is my first cousin. I only met her once when their family visited us here in Toronto nine years ago. Reading all the messages made me know her better, an opportunity that I missed.
Rest in peace Eleanor.
For Ine and Bob and the children, may the good memories heal your wounds fast. Pls be in touch.
From cousins,Tessie, Sonia, Liberty and Oyet
from Toronto
Friday 09/02/2005 7:08:36pm
Name: Anselmo & Juani Family
Locale: Bago Bantay, Philippines
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest condolences to your family. May the Lord give you enough strength, to move on during these difficult time in your life. Our prayers for you and your family.
Friday 09/02/2005 4:41:14am
Name: Louisa Jamon
Locale: Brussels, Belgium
E-Mail: louisa106@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences We extend our condolences to the family of Eleanor.
 
Wednesday 08/31/2005 2:57:01pm
Name: Mila & David Reyes
Locale: Pasadena
E-Mail: mreyes@hcimed.com
Thoughts/Condolences May God bless your family more than ever most especially in these difficult times.
Wednesday 08/31/2005 7:35:29am
Name: Mr. & Mrs. Aristotle Maduli
Locale: Sharjah, U.A.E.
E-Mail: aris_maduli@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences We extend our condolences to the family of Eleanor.
Tuesday 08/30/2005 11:51:09pm
Name: MM
Locale: Frisco, Metro Manila North
E-Mail: smoochum17@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences a wonderful person with a vibrant spirit and a very strong faith. we'll miss you, ate...
Tuesday 08/30/2005 9:52:42pm
Name: Noemi Tolentino
Locale: Quezon City, Philippines
E-Mail: jemk7181211@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest sympathy from Noemi & Family.
Tuesday 08/30/2005 8:57:21pm
Name: Ate Jing
Locale: Baesa, Philippines
E-Mail: evangeline_fermin@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences you will always be in our heart. i will miss you cous.
Tuesday 08/30/2005 5:27:55pm
Name: Jason , Mariecris, Jem, Calvin De Jesus
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: j_dmechanic@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our condolences to Ka Bobby,Ka Ine and family.
Tuesday 08/30/2005 3:27:54pm
Name: Vencedor & Annie Alimario&Family
Locale: San Pablo City Philippines
E-Mail: earlalimario@orientfreight.com
Thoughts/Condolences We are deeply saddened by the news.

Our loving God is always at your side He will continue to guide and bless your family through these hard times.

Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

Nedor & Annie
Von & Len and Family
Earl & Belinda and Family
 
Monday 08/29/2005 11:33:26am
Name: Brother Allan Gibbs
Locale: Phoenix, Arizona
E-Mail: Agibbs996@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Please forgive me for signing a second time. But after reading all of the thoughts from members around the world, I've come to the realization that Eleanor's final gift to us was a sense of unity and inspiration.

That even though many of us are many miles apart, we still share in the spirit of Christ that binds us. We share the same pain, the same joy, and receive the same consolation for the Holy Spirit. Eleanor's parting gift to us all was, that in her rest, the spirit of unity is made known.

 
Sunday 08/28/2005 11:12:22pm
Name: Kay Trocino
Locale: Forest Hills
E-Mail: kayconstancia@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Condolences to the loved ones of our Sister Eleanor. Our lingering hope will be reunited on that day, with her and all those who came before us.
Sunday 08/28/2005 8:41:12am
Name: April (Sanchez), Don, & Sarena Vasquez
Locale: Sacramento
E-Mail: asv222@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest sympathy to the Fermin family.
-My memories of ate Eleanor will forever be cherished.
Sunday 08/28/2005 4:04:04am
Name: Minister Feljun B. Fuentes and family
Locale: Central, Metro Manila South, Phils.
E-Mail: feljun_fuentes@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our whole family in the Philippines would like to extend our heartfelt condolences to the parents (Bobby and Eleanor), siblings, and relatives of Eleanor II. We believe though that she has always been in the good hands of the Almighty. May the Heavenly Father console everyone who miss her presence.
Sunday 08/28/2005 1:31:42am
Name: Mr. Alex & Aida Bunyi Family
Locale: Pasont Tamo, Philippines
E-Mail: margarett_04@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Even though we're across the seas...In behalf of the INC family here in the Philippines,we are extending our deepest symphathy to the Fermin family.

Always remember that God Loves us very much and all of these happened for a good reason.

May God bless your family always.
Saturday 08/27/2005 10:12:46pm
Name: BEBOT, BONG, AND LARAMIER LOPEZ
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: Reimaral5@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences To the Fermin and Dela Merced family. Our deepest Sympathy in the loss of Eleanor. She will surely be missed by everybody. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Saturday 08/27/2005 7:45:52pm
Name: Giselle Cortes
Locale: San Jose
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences I would like to extend my sympathy and deepest condolences to your family. May God continue to guide and bless you through these hard times.
Saturday 08/27/2005 6:53:57pm
Name: Brother Ronnie Javier & Family
Locale: Detroit, Michigan
E-Mail: javierronnie@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Dear Ka Bobby, Ka Ine & Family

We extend our deepest sympathy and condolences to your family during these diffucult and most trying times. We are deeply saddened by the news.

Eleanor will be sorely missed by all who truly know her dedication and faithfulness in performing whatever duty and resposibility was entrusted unto her.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.


Brother Ronnie & Family
Saturday 08/27/2005 2:17:12am
Name: JUN & RISSA DE JESUS
Locale: SAN GABRIEL VALLEY
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences MY FAMILY WOULD LIKE TO EXTEND OUR HEARTFELT
SYMPATHY. GOD BLESS.
Friday 08/26/2005 7:04:49pm
Name: Bro. Albert Gaspar and Family
Locale: Detroit, MI
E-Mail: agaspar@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences We would like to extend our sympathy and deepest condolences to your family. May God continue to guide and bless you through these hard times.
Friday 08/26/2005 11:38:03am
Name: Anthony Ingalla
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: sayynot@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences  
Friday 08/26/2005 9:28:53am
Name: Bro. Rey Jasmin & Family
Locale: SGV
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Ka Bobby & family:

Our sincere sympathy and heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Thursday 08/25/2005 9:14:26pm
Name: Jenny Mascarinas Estanilla
Locale: Henderson, NV
E-Mail: mascarin@unlv.nevada.edu
Thoughts/Condolences My deepest regret is that I wasn't able to spend a lot of time with Ate Eleanor. But whenever I did, whether it was a trip down to CA, a visit from your family in the PI, or a visit from the District Kadiwa officers in Las Vegas, it was always like we've just seen each other yesterday. She's always treated me like a little sister or cousin. I'm sad that I never got to go snowboarding with her, Ate Emylene, Ate Lisa, and Clint as she asked me too! I always kept thinking, "they're only 4 hours away" or "maybe next winter season." Definitely, Ate Eleanor has taught us that life is too short to put off things that we can do today. It's important that we always, always, let the people we love how much they mean to us. More importantly, I've learned the importance of re-assessing our priorities in life, that we have more important tasks to accomplish than those that only deal with life here on earth. May Ate Eleanor continue to inspire us to always be prepared - to complete our work, finish the race, and endure until the very end...

Tito Bob and Tita Ine, it's not only Ate Eleanor who's inspired us. In spending only three days with you and your family at the memorial chapel, I have been amazed with the strength of the DelaMerced-Fermin clan - everyone, from the grandparents, to the aunts and uncles, to the cousins, and the grandchildren. Rather than questioning God's decision regarding Ate Eleanor's fate, I saw a family who grew closer together, who supported and consoled each other, and grew stronger in their faith. I saw a family who took Clint as their own son, brother, grandson, nephew, and cousin. I saw the head deacon, the deaconess, and the choir members who tirelessly perform their duties despite their time of mourning. Lastly, I saw not only brethren in the faith but also people from all walks of life flock from all over the country (and accross the globe)to give your family their condolences and sympathies.

My mother always told me, "God only gives you trials He knows you can endure."

Tito Bob and Tita Ine, your family is to be commended. You have demonstrated how true servants of God should withstand the tragedies they face in life.

You are always in our prayers.

Love,
Jenny and Roel Estanilla
Thursday 08/25/2005 7:58:31pm
Name: Nelson Cailles
Locale: Hayward
E-Mail: koolnc@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences My deepest Condolences to the Family.
Thursday 08/25/2005 7:57:46pm
Name: leni/chito/kit and olie maglunog
Locale: phoenix,az
E-Mail: rossmaglunog@cox.net
Thoughts/Condolences our deepest sympathy to the fermin and dela merced family.
Thursday 08/25/2005 7:55:24pm
Name:  
Locale:  
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Letting go is hard.
It means turning away
from cherished hopes and dreams
It means questioning things
you've always held to be true and good.
But letting go also leaves you free
to make new choices...
to grow in new directions...
to explore new ways.
Thursday 08/25/2005 6:31:07pm
Name: June & Rose Domine
Locale: Mcallen/Brownsville TX
E-Mail: June.domine@gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends who were close to Eleanor. She was truly a unique, down to earth, free-spirited beautiful woman. It was an honor knowing you Eleanor.
Thursday 08/25/2005 10:35:19am
Name: Bro. Ignacio Cruz Jr. & Sis. Rosette
Locale: Northern California (U.S.M.O.)
E-Mail: ic315@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ka Bobby Fermin & Family

We express our deepest sympathy. She will be remembered as a true servant of God and as an inspiration to all. May our Almighty God give you the added strength during this time of sorrow.

Ka IC & family
Thursday 08/25/2005 8:13:19am
Name:  
Locale:  
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences We used to be frightened and scared to try
Of things we don't really understand why
We laugh for a moment and start to cry
We were crazy

Now that the end is already here
We reminisce 'bout old yells and cheers
Even if our last hurrahs were never clear

Farewell to you my friends
We'll see each other again
Don't cry 'cause it's not the end of everything
I may be miles away
But here is where my heart will stay
With you, my friends with you

Yesterday's a treasure, today is here
Tomorrows' on its way, the sky is clear
Thank you for the mem'ries of all the laughters and tears
And not to mention our doubts and our fears
The hypertension we gave to our peers
It's really funny to look back after all of these years
Thursday 08/25/2005 8:02:11am
Name: LORMA FRIGILLANA RIVERA
Locale: LONG BEACH, CALIFORNIA
E-Mail: Lrivera@aerol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Dear Brother Bobby, Sister Ene and Family,

Our Brotherhood in Christ is one of the key factors towards our salvation, so, when I heard about Sister Eleanor's passing away I felt sadness in my heart. It seems that my own sister left me and had gone to a very far place where we will not be seeing her for a while.

I remember Sister Eleanor during the sports activities of the Church. She was so vibrant and energetic, so young and beautiful. I can't forget her face. I am pretty sure Brother Clint, her fiance will miss her a lot, but let us not worry for this is only but temporary.

I know Sister Eleanor will live in the hearts of everyone who knew and loved her.

My deepest sympathy for your loss.
Thursday 08/25/2005 6:10:30am
Name: Emee Cruz
Locale: Tracy
E-Mail:

esagabaen@hotmail.com

Thoughts/Condolences I haven't known Eleanor for a long time, just a few short years while she was dating Clint, my brother-in-law. But what I do know is how much she loved him and he loved her. I've never seen two people more made for each other than Clint and Eleanor. Each just as goofy as the other, with a love so pure. Eleanor made Clint so happy, he smiled everytime he talked about her. After these past few days, being with her family and close friends, it's easy to see how many lives Eleanor has changed. And although I didn't have the privilege of spending more time with her, she continues to change my life. With her sudden passing, she helped me realize that we can't waste time on things we'll forget about tomorrow, that tomorrow is never promised and to live for today. She's taught me to have a little more patience, to be a little kinder, and to love a little more. And by doing that, that's how I'll remember Eleanor.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 10:22:44pm
Name: Evelyn & David Barr
Locale: Riverside
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences
tenderly may time heal your sorrow,
gently may friends ease your pain,
softly may peace replace heartaches
and may warmest memories remain...

Ka Bob and Ka Ine, our prayers and thoughts are with you and the rest of your family...We will always celebrate and remember Eleanor's life... May God give you the strength during this most difficult time...

Evelyn, David and Angelique
Wednesday 08/24/2005 9:11:28pm
Name: Meimban Family
Locale: F. Manalo, Metro Manila South
E-Mail: melinda_meimban@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences
Please accept our deepest condolences for the passing away of your dear "Eleanor"

David and Melinda (Makapugay) Meimban
and our children Krislyn & Erik
Wednesday 08/24/2005 7:19:51pm
Name: Bro. Jel and Sis. Tina Calbes
Locale: Locale of Stockton.
E-Mail: jceleazar@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Many thoughts rush to my mind and good memories I left behind in SoCal. One thing sticks in my mind is when Eleanor said to me "Jel! Small Cup!" and she laughed....I was in total denial of her passing until I finally got there to see her. I said to myself "WHY her?". It hurts inside, yet I know she is just sleeping for now, until we see her again.

For Ka Bobby, ka Ine, Emylene, and Elisa may God continue to give His love to all of you. God Bless us all.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 2:32:49pm
Name: Jeffrey So
Locale: Chino Hills
E-Mail: jeffreyso1@gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I went to school at Ayala with Eleanor and what I remember the most is that her smile is very contagious. She can turn a bad day into a good day. She made badminton fun during badminton practices and it would not have been the same without her. She will be missed very much.

My deepest condolences and prayers to her family.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 1:35:03pm
Name: Alwin and Thess Acuna
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: alwinacuna@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our condolences to the Fermin-Dela Merced family.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 11:04:06am
Name: Alfredo and Carmelita Cunanan
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: alfredocunanan@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ka Bobby, Ka Ine and all the rest of the family,
Our thoughts are always with you in your bereavement for Eleanor.

Ka Boy and Ka Lita
Wednesday 08/24/2005 8:20:10am
Name: Brian Calma
Locale: Phoenix, AZ
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences I only met Sis. Eleanor on a few occasions. The one that stands out the most, however, is when the District Kadiwa Officers visited us here and taught us how to play Mafia. She was the facilitator with the big smile on her face. When I'd see her at District events, that same smile was always there. When Bro. Aldrin told me of her condition a few weeks ago, I had a hard time remembering her face...but then I remembered her smile and it all came back.

May she rest in peace, and may her entire family feel the endless love and strength from our Father above.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 5:23:20am
Name: Ellen Rollo
Locale: Long Island City, New York
E-Mail: vbelle914@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor was always one of the warm and welcoming faces whenever I got the chance to visit Southern California. She was my fellow "E girl" as I used to refer to her. I luckily had the chance to spend a few moments with her while she was on the East Coast just a few weeks ago. Her first priority of course was making sure she could find a locale to attend worship service. While catching up with her, she spoke lovingly of Clint as she shared the story of their engagement, how she found her perfect dress and her ensuing wedding plans. I feel fortunate to have had the opportunity to have met someone like Eleanor. I admire her for the devotion and enthusiasm she had in performing her duties, the love she shared with her family and friends, and the innate ability she had to touch the lives of all those who had the good fortune of crossing her path. Sleep tight for now Eleanor ..

To the Fermin/Dela Merced Family, please accept my sincerest and deepest condolences. Your daughter is indeed and inspiration to us all as we strive to finish our course with such focus and determination. May the love of our Father guide and comfort you in the days to come, and may the happiness she brought to your lives always warm your heart.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 5:13:43am
Name: Cynthia Papa
Locale: South San DIego/SoCal
E-Mail: cyn_papa@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember Eleanor for her distinguishable laugh and charming smile. I remember her devotion to her duty as a choir member. To her family- May the Lord God bring you even closer to Him during this difficult time.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 5:02:41am
Name: King Family
Locale: Phoenix
E-Mail: damone72000@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences We are sadden to hear of the loss of our dear sister. Your family is truly in our deepest thoughts and prayers.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 2:44:30am
Name: Carlota Salazar and family .
Locale: Battersea London, England.
E-Mail: williamk96@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Lota and all her family are sending thier deepest symphaty upon hearing this sad news. We know how much Eleanor meant to you all and her beloved Clinton and our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We pray to the Lord to give you the strenght to come to terms with this trials your encountering at this moment in time.
May the Lord continue to shower you with his blessings.
God Bless...
Carlota Wright and Mary Alice Kelly.
Wednesday 08/24/2005 2:43:54am
Name: Barrientos Family
Locale: Anaheim
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Fermin family
Tuesday 08/23/2005 11:40:29pm
Name: Bro. Joe & Sis. Ester
Locale: Central, Metro Manila South
E-Mail: hufellow@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences We were deeply saddened by the news that Eleanor is gone. Although she finished her race faster than the others, she will be sorely missed.
We remember a young woman who was so energetic and exuberant. I also used to call her "Barclay" because of her rebounding ability when she is playing basketball for the San Gabriel Valley team. I remember her assisting the district leadership during the games. She was my student in the CWS Teacher's class and she showed that her talent in teaching was inherited from her dad. We remember how she was very happy to see us here in the Philippines when she went with her parents to celebrate her lola's birthday.
However it may be painful to many of us to see her depart from this life, we know for sure that we will see her again at the coming of Christ. She is an epitome of a true Christian and Rev. 14:12-13 was fulfilled in her.

To Bro. Bob and Sis. Ine, how we wish to be with you personally to help alleviate your pain and suffering but distance does not allow this to happen. You are always on our mind and prayers. May you find solace and comfort in the hands of the Lord.
Tuesday 08/23/2005 9:50:34pm
Name: jaimer cadang
Locale: oxnard
E-Mail: jaycad@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences i've never seen her mad or upset. she was always smiling and just lovin life.
Tuesday 08/23/2005 9:27:36pm
Name: Brother Allan Gibbs
Locale: Phoenix, Arizona
E-Mail: Agibbs996@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences It's been more than 12 years since Eleanor and I last saw each other. At the time, Pasadena was still an extension of SGV.

And yet despite all the time that's past, when I heard she was given rest, I realized an empty spot had formed in my life because she was gone. And since she was laid to rest, I've heard of her accomplishments and of her devotion. And I see the faith I had known 12 years ago had grown brighter.

Eleanor embodied all that it means to be a choir member, an organist, and a member of the Church of Christ. Her's was a life of devotion and for that, God fulfilled his covenant with her. And we shall see her again soon.
Tuesday 08/23/2005 8:37:13pm
Name: Vanessa Opune
Locale: Brownsville-McAllen TX
E-Mail: krzynessa211@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I didn't get the pleasure of meeting your daughter. But I know, because of the Church in which we are members of, we are all connected and united as one. She has inspired us all to continue, and it is once again another gift Eleanor has given us. She will always be remembered by everyone, but this should all the more motivate us in our race. So that one day, we'll see her once again with all our other brothers and sisters who we dearly miss and love in that glorious Kingdom of Heaven...

"Then death is but a slumber, Sweet rest when all is done, Awakened by the wonder Of your returning Son.." ~Hymn 214
Tuesday 08/23/2005 7:53:10pm
Name: Monte de Ramos, Alan
Locale: North San Diego
E-Mail: alanmontederamos@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences We would like to express our deepest condolences to Bro. Robert Fermin and Family.
Tuesday 08/23/2005 7:44:59pm
Name: Alan Monte de Ramos
Locale: North San Diego
E-Mail: alanmontederamos@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences From MONTE DE RAMOS FAMILY
Tuesday 08/23/2005 6:32:59pm
Name: Brian & Kat Berling
Locale: North San Diego
E-Mail: brianberling@gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Every time I saw Eleanor, she had a smile on her face. Now it wasn't just a polite smile, or a "oh, how nice to see you" smile. It was always a "this day couldn't possibly be any better" kind of smile. It was the kind that you want to show to other people and say, "See, that's how that should be done."
Tuesday 08/23/2005 5:05:17pm
Name: BROTHER LYNDON A. AGUIRRE
Locale: CENTRAL
E-Mail: lyndonaguirre@gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ka Bobby and Ka Emy....Our thoughts were with you upon learning this..and to all the loved ones of Sister Eleanor...She finished her run and ours to cherish and wish to finish as well...Ka Lyndon & Family
Tuesday 08/23/2005 4:16:33pm
Name: Arthur C. Fermin
Locale: Hiroshima, Japan
E-Mail: arthurfermin@galaxy.ocn.ne.jp
Thoughts/Condolences CONDOLENCES PO.

From,
Arthur C. Fermin
Resident Minister
Tuesday 08/23/2005 3:47:17pm
Name: Lorna & Dave Tyrie
Locale: Indianapolis, IN
E-Mail: odgie1914@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences We want to extend our condolences to Fermin & Dela Merced Family.
Tuesday 08/23/2005 2:26:39pm
Name: Roger, Leth, Rod and Reg
Locale: South San Diego
E-Mail: rogeleth@cox.net
Thoughts/Condolences To Bobby, Ine, Emylene, Lisa and Clint

We share the deep sadness of Eleanor's passing. We shall always remember the brightness of her smile, her goodness and her devotion to the Faith, which shall forever shine in the hearts of those who knew and loved her. May we also share the joy of her past life, and most especially, her life hereafter which is eternal.

*** THE RAMOS FAMILY ***
Tuesday 08/23/2005 2:24:08pm
Name: Joseph & Joji Vasquez
Locale: Lakewood, WA
E-Mail: jgvasquez2@comcast.net
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest condolences to Bro. Bobby Fermin and family. We never met Eleanor but we heard many good things about her thru our sister, Marie Gaston. May God bless and render peace to those she left behind.
Tuesday 08/23/2005 2:01:30pm
Name: BETH O. DOMINGO
Locale: OTTAWA, ONTARIO - CANADA
E-Mail: bethdomingo@rogers.com
Thoughts/Condolences TO THE FERMIN FAMILY
We express our deepest sympathy.Though we haven't met nor seen Eleanor we are inspired by all her accomplishments not only in school, at work but most especially her devotion to her duties in the Church. May beautiful memories give you both and your children strength in these difficult days. Our prayers are with you
Ka Beth
Tuesday 08/23/2005 1:29:04pm
Name: PAROCHA, Gary
Locale: SEATTLE, WA
E-Mail: glparocha@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences To the Fermins, I just want to let you know that our family as well have not forgotten our Sister Eleonar.


Our Condolences,
Parocha Family
Gary & Susan Parocha /
Jerry & Harriet Parocha
Tuesday 08/23/2005 9:05:31am
Name: Norman Cabanilla
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: ncabanil@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I didn't have too many opportunities to interact with Sis. Eleanor, but for the few times that I did, I could immediately see what all the raves were about. It wasn't only her infectious smile, or her glowing personality, but you could tell, just by speaking to her for but five minutes, that kind and generous heart that she offered to everyone. You ARE an inspiration to us all, and you will surely be missed.

To Ka Bobby and family, you supported my family (my parents) when they needed you (their wedding). And we will continue to support yours just the same. God bless.

The Cabanilla Family
(Honorio, Nancy, Olifel, Nory Jun, and Norman)
Tuesday 08/23/2005 7:53:02am
Name: Gisele
Locale: Anaheim
E-Mail: giselebautista_@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences To the parents of Eleanor,
I'm a total stranger to you, I'm just a sis, but let me greet you this: Congratulations!!! Having seen Eleanor's video, you were given by God a little baby and was able to give Him back a true child of God who lived the way God had wanted it to be, and who will later on be wakened up to once again be part of, this time, perpetual glorious singing of praises to our Lord God. Again, congratulations for a job very well done in bringing up Eleanor the way you did!
Tuesday 08/23/2005 7:14:37am
Name: The Estrada Family
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: werestrada@sbcglobal.net
Thoughts/Condolences To the Fermin Family,
Condolence!
Tuesday 08/23/2005 4:47:25am
Name: Butch and Breezy Tirona
Locale: Tokyo,Japan
E-Mail: unico_niggoe@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences We've only met Eleonor once,that was when we visited California and had a dinner with them at Emeryck's place.All we could remember of her was her very beautiful and meaningful smile.She was so cheerful.And she was so proud to show us her engagement ring and announce that she's gettin married.The only phrase that we could remember her telling was "this is Clint,my fiance.we're gettin married".....and she raised her left hand and proudly....really proudly showing off the ring.And we were watching her and Clint eating together in one plate that night...they were 2 lovebirds.
We're glad that we were able to meet her.Deepest Sympathy and condolences to the ones she'd left...Tito Bob,Tita Ine,Emylene,Elisa(never met her yet)and Clint.
Tuesday 08/23/2005 2:57:36am
Name: Bro. Erwin Gorgonio
Locale: Anaheim
E-Mail: egorgonio@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences To the Fermin Family,

We express our deepest condolences. Unfortunately, we cannot be there with you because we are out of the country.

May our Father give you the strength in this time of sorrow. Apostle Paul said "Mourn with those who mourn" We mourn with you.

Nevertheless, we shall see each other again.

Bro. Erwin & family
Monday 08/22/2005 11:22:32pm
Name: Barry Thompson
Locale: Henderson
E-Mail: zyonzone@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Sis. Eleanor has touched many lives in a positive way. Her presence and everything
about her will be missed. Our thoughts go out to her family especially her parents.

Barry Thompson & Family
Monday 08/22/2005 9:27:10pm
Name: Bro. Sam Castillo
Locale: San Jose
E-Mail: samnet1914@comcast.net
Thoughts/Condolences Dear Fermin Family:
May our Almighty Father in heaven & our Lord Jesus Christ strengthen & uphold you during this time of need. Be rest assured that, you'll once again be with one another in the Holy City that God has created for his chosen people.
Monday 08/22/2005 9:26:14pm
Name: S. Dennis Lopez
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: kahirup@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I have so many fond memories of Eleanor. When she was an Officer here in San Gabriel, she was really someone you can rely on to get the job done. She taught me how to be a leader, how to be understanding, how to be patient, and most of all, how to be a True Christian. She was a great friend and will always be remembered. She was always someone I could lean on. Now, her race is done, and we all will see each other one day in the Holy City. On behalf of the Lopez Family, we extend our condolences to the Fermin Family and pray for them during this time of need.
Monday 08/22/2005 8:47:58pm
Name: John Hobley
Locale: Stratford, England
E-Mail: john_hobley@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Stratford congregation offers our condolences to the family. May God bless you all at this difficult time.
Monday 08/22/2005 7:59:19pm
Name: butch
Locale: calumpang, rizal (phils)
E-Mail: flichelfad@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences our sincerest condolences to the family of Sis Eleonor. although i never got 2 know her, i know that she's a great sister in the Faith.
Monday 08/22/2005 7:39:50pm
Name: Jean Sarinas
Locale: National City
E-Mail: jeansari@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences My prayers are w/ Eleanor's family and friends. As her classmate in college, I remember her as a friendly, positive, and free-spirited person. She will never be forgotten.
Monday 08/22/2005 5:12:57pm
Name: Bro. Andrew Macadangdang
Locale: Las Vegas
E-Mail: macadang2@cox.net
Thoughts/Condolences I never got to know Sis. Eleanor, but I know she was a great sister in the faith.
Monday 08/22/2005 4:41:46pm
Name: Donna Rader
Locale: Rancho Cucamonga
E-Mail: raderdl@sce.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor, what can I say. An Aunt to my daughter just by the love you gave her. A friend to my partner who is missing you terribly and a good friend of mine who's time came to soon and will be rememered for a lifetime to come. Love you Eleanor and miss you more.
Monday 08/22/2005 4:37:31pm
Name: Jessie Fe Vidal
Locale: Sunnyvale/Seattle
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences I only met Sister Eleanor during one of my business trips in NorCal when she was visiting her fiance. During our conversation, I later learned she was in the same locale as my younger brother who was no where near immediate family. I asked her to take care of him and to make sure he continues to be more active in faith... As a true instrument of God, she definitely served with all her heart and did just that. She's inspired and enlightened others to continue serving God.

Eleanor will definitely be missed by those who's lives she has touched...

Thoughts and prayers to the Fermin family and Bro. Clint.
Monday 08/22/2005 4:28:22pm
Name: Lynne Tolentino
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail: islandsurfergirl67@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences You will be truly missed Ate Eleanor...you will never be forgotten..for you have changed all of our lives...I Love You Ate El!You'll be in my Heart forever...
Monday 08/22/2005 4:18:20pm
Name: Sammy and Jane Cabrales
Locale: Anaheim
E-Mail: kasammy2001@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Words are hard to come by especially to express feelings of sadness and emptiness.

My family and I extend our deepest sympathy to the family and friends she left behind. May God bless us all with comfort and understanding.
Monday 08/22/2005 2:42:21pm
Name: Concepcion Family
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest sympathy to the Fermin family. She will be remembered as a true servant of GOD and as an inspiration to all.
Monday 08/22/2005 2:33:55pm
Name: Ruy and Donna Lopez
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: sanchdt@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our sincerest condolences to Clint and to the whole Fermin-delaMerced family.
Monday 08/22/2005 2:27:41pm
Name: Sonny, Jeanette, Precious & LJ Ricardo
Locale: Fremont
E-Mail: sonijean@sbcglobal.net
Thoughts/Condolences The last time I saw Sis. Eleonor was when I officiated the Holy Supper worship service of Victorville locale in 2003. She greeted me and shook my hand with a smile just like what she did when I and my family visited and prayed for Ka Mary's natal day at least for 3 times. Friendly and sisterly smile is her trade mark. That's what she got from her parents. Ka Bobby and Ka Ine should be proud for they succeeded in raising her as a true christian and a true officer in the church. Her remarkable qualities should inspire every one that like Sis. Eleonor, every one will be able to finish the race.
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY OF KA BOBBY & INE FERMIN

Ka Sonny, Jeanette, Precious & L.J. Ricardo
Monday 08/22/2005 1:24:24pm
Name: Bro. Tony Smith and family
Locale: Stockton
E-Mail: incminister1914
Thoughts/Condolences 8-22-05

Hello dearest brethren,

May I share a special moment ?
I have always remembered our dear Sister Eleanor when it was her turn to share with us her mission statement and who inspired her the most..you could feel at once everything about her that mattered the most,her deep love for her faith, duty and family. Remember? I will never forget that moment that ment so much to me. I encourage all to make the best of every day of life. Lets express our love for family and brotherhood while we still can - foregive even in advance.

May the Lord God comfort and strengthen us all.

With love and deepest sympathy.

Your brethren in Christ

Bro. Tony Smith and family.
Monday 08/22/2005 12:20:51am
Name: Endique Family
Locale: Long Beach, CA
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Our condolences to our Sister Eleanor's family and Brother Clint. May you find strength and comfort during your time of sorrow. Please know that all your friends and loved ones are here for you all.
Monday 08/22/2005 11:40:14am
Name: noel hernandez and family
Locale: florida
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences our heartfelt sympathy to your family
Monday 08/22/2005 11:40:06am
Name: john dave gonzalez
Locale: philadelphia
E-Mail: john.gonzalez@juno.com
Thoughts/Condolences the first and only time i met eleanor was back in 1996.. around a week before thanksgiving.. she was in town w/ her sisters and they were doing a eastcoast tour.. being that they knew brian basi and that they were the first people from out west that i met, i thought that they were pretty cool.. we ate some cheesesteaks that weren't so good, but those cali people liked it, go figure.. anyway, it was just a good time w/ them. Eleanor and i would then lose contact for a few years till about 2002. i forget how i got her email address, but i did and decieded to email her. then talked every now and again. even tried to talk her though gettin into her room when she locked herself out. *i know what your thinking, how did you talk her though getting into a locked room.. i dont know either..* anyway.. time passes and things go on. we lose touch and no contact for a while.. always meant to call and see how she was doing, but always put it off saying i'll do it later.. i guess i can't anymore..

so my condolences to the family, frieds and all those who were blessed to have her even for a moment in their lives. eleanor you will be missed. maybe we'll have better cheesesteaks nexttime and not lock you out of your room anymore.

jd
Monday 08/22/2005 11:30:24am
Name: carlito hernadez and family
Locale: maui, hawaii
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences our deepest sympathy to your family
Monday 08/22/2005 11:27:05am
Name: Jun, Mae & Meg Baldonado
Locale: Honolulu, Hawaii
E-Mail: Imae610@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Dear Brother Bob & Sister Ine & Family

Our deepest sympathy po....May our Almighty gives u comfort in these trying times... GOD Bless your family po.
Monday 08/22/2005 11:22:53am
Name: FILIPINAS TIANGCO - TURNER
Locale: TEMECULA VALLEY
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILY
Monday 08/22/2005 11:18:21am
Name: KA PEPE, KA RITA AND ALLEN TIANGCO
Locale: HOUSTON, TX
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences CARING THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
Monday 08/22/2005 11:14:54am
Name: perrie tiangco sanchez & family
Locale: houston
E-Mail: sanchbunch@houston.rr.com
Thoughts/Condolences our thoughts and sympathy are with you
Monday 08/22/2005 11:05:52am
Name: Abe Nazareno (USMO)
Locale: Daly City, California
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Dear ka Bobby& ka Ine,
Buong puso po akong nakikiramay sa pagpanaw ng inyo pong mahal na anak.
Monday 08/22/2005 10:54:01am
Name: Maribel Satorre-Yousef
Locale: San Jose
E-Mail: msatorre@atc-ca.com
Thoughts/Condolences I send my warmest sympathy to the families left behind and to her fiance...but her faith and activeness in her church convictions assure her of what we all want to attain...peace and rest from this world. Eventually, the heavenly bliss.
Monday 08/22/2005 10:37:26am
Name: Cristia Gorospe
Locale: Daly City
E-Mail: cristia.gorospe@boe.ca.gov
Thoughts/Condolences Dearest Bobby & Ine,

Our deepest condolonces to your family. Our loving God is always by your side and will give you strength, at these trying times.

Sis Cristia, Jaimee & Angelyn "Jill" Gorospe
Monday 08/22/2005 10:33:15am
Name: Ka Manny Diaz and Family
Locale: Daly City NorCal and USMO
E-Mail: erdiaz@pacbell.net
Thoughts/Condolences
Dear Ka Bobby Fermin and Family,

Our thoughts and prayer will be with you and your family. May GOD comfort and give you solace in this time of test and sadness
Monday 08/22/2005 10:18:11am
Name: Ester dela Paz-Santiago & family
Locale: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
E-Mail: estrella.santiago@rogers.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our heatfelt sympathy to Ka Bobby,
Ka Ine and family.
Monday 08/22/2005 9:20:39am
Name: Randy Zulueta
Locale: San Jose
E-Mail: ranzulu@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences My deepest condolences to Ka Bobby and family. May God's loving comfort be with you and your family through this trying times.
Monday 08/22/2005 9:00:40am
Name: joy singian
Locale: pandacaqui pampanga
E-Mail: jessie1077@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I may not know her personally but I would like to extend my deepest condolences to her family....I'm a choir member too ...
Monday 08/22/2005 8:31:35am
Name: Ka Louie Vergara & Ka Nenette
Locale: Long Island City Locale
E-Mail: kalouiev@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences We will continue to cherish the time we met when we were still in Southern California.
Monday 08/22/2005 8:30:26am
Name: Florentino Mangosing Jr. Family
Locale: Palm Springs, CA
E-Mail: mfamblue@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences May our Almighty God always be with the whole family especially during this time of grief.
Our deepest sympathy.


Ka Jun, Dinno(Jose), Aleth and Regie

Monday 08/22/2005 8:09:43am
Name: Charlene and Darwin Lee
Locale: South San Diego
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Even though I didn't know Eleanor personally, I remembered her smile and beauty when she hosted the formal back in 2002 with the theme "Shine as Lights of the World."
Our deepest condolences to the Fermin Family in your time of sorrow. May our Almighty God grant you strength and peace in your hearts.

Charlene and Darwin Lee
Monday 08/22/2005 8:01:16am
Name: SISTER CONNIE R. VILLAMARIN
Locale: NATIONAL CITY,CA.
E-Mail: CONMAILREYVIL@YAHOO.COM
Thoughts/Condolences To the Fermin family:With our deepest sympathy in this hard time of your life.She will be always an "insparations to our brethren for the amazing race she showed."God Bless You All!
-Villamarin Family.
Monday 08/22/2005 6:59:40am
Name: Riz Era
Locale: Sacramento, CA
E-Mail: riz_o@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember Eleanor way back when we used to go down south and hang out with the girls in Montclair. She was really down to earth and so easy to talk to. She was very fun to be with and always had that great smile; but was serious and determined when she had to get something done. I’ve only known her for such a short time, but will always cherish the memories I’ve shared with her and her friends.

To Emylene, Elisa, Ka Bob, Ka Ine, Clint, the girls and the entire family, my deepest sympathy and condolences for your loss. May God bless you in your time of grief.
Monday 08/22/2005 6:13:07am
Name: Edgar & Precy Catapat
Locale: Dallas, Texas
E-Mail: pcatapat@fdic.gov
Thoughts/Condolences Our heartfelt condolences to the Fermin Family.
Monday 08/22/2005 2:30:25am
Name: Bro. Jay & Sis. Beth Espinas
Locale: Arlington, Florida
E-Mail: JBEspinas@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our condolences to the Fermin family. May our Almighty God give you the added strength during this time of sorrow.
Monday 08/22/2005 1:16:22am
Name: Jona Castillo
Locale: BANGKOK,,THAILAND
E-Mail: jona_castillo@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Condolence to her family...
Monday 08/22/2005 0:59:06am
Name: Wilma, Rey, Lauren & Daniel Sarmiento
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: wilma.sarmiento@gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our family is speechless when it comes to describing Eleanor because she's exactly what everyone had described. You don't have to be close to her to love her. She brought love to all through her smile and cheerfulness. She made people say "what problem?" and that's what we really like about Eleanor.....a positive force....Thank you so much for being a part of our lives and all the help you've done to our family...in taking good care of Lauren when she needed a true friend and "ate".

Ka Ine, Ka Bobby, Lisa, Emyline, Clint and all of the Fermin/DelaMerced family...our prayers are with you and may you be comforted through this trying times. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Sunday 08/21/2005 10:45:55pm
Name: Jo Gargantos
Locale: F. Manalo, San Juan, Metro Manila
E-Mail: jcg@civicmdsg.com.ph, JO_GARGANTOS2002@YAHOO.COM
Thoughts/Condolences Condolence for the family of Ate Eleanor....i dont see her, but ive already talk to her, here in chat...and i find her as my true sister, not only as INC but shes sincere and true....i was sad, when ive learned that she passed away...because i was not able to talk to her again.....

....miss her so much for being so good...
.....luvs you, Jo
Sunday 08/21/2005 10:30:15pm
Name: Maricel De Leon
Locale: cainta rizal
E-Mail: celbone@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences in behalf of Ms.Jacqueline Abug we the moderators of Ahihihi.forumer.com expresses our sympathy for the untimely passing of sis Eleonor. :(
Sunday 08/21/2005 10:04:29pm
Name: Arnel & Deanna Astrero
Locale: Anaheim, CA
E-Mail: dmgainc@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Her voice still rings in my ears so clear and her perkiness way so vivid in my thoughts. We don't see each other much, but when we did, it's just a joy. She has that hop in her step and big smile that shows you just how happy she is to see you. "Hi ATE DEANNA!" followed by a big kiss on the cheek.

Reading and reflecting on the kind of life she's lived; adored by so many and best of all, strong and active in her duties in the Church. What would be a better way to live a life and be laid to rest? This is what all members pray for. If He should take us, may He take us active in our duties and inside his Church. Eleanor is guaranteed the promise of Eternal Salvation.

We extend our love and deepest condolences to Ninong Bob, Ninang Ine, Emilynn, Lisa, and Clint.

We pray that He give you all strength in these trying times. And to all that she's left behind, we pray that we all will remain steadfast in our calling and that we will see you again, Eleanor, in that "New Home".

-- Arnel, Deanna, Ayrton and Marc Daniel Astrero
Sunday 08/21/2005 9:28:21pm
Name: Sarah
Locale: North San Diego
E-Mail: luvinbliss@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences On behalf of the Vicente family, I would like to send my sincerest condolensces to the family of Ate Eleanor. She was one of the most charismatic people I have ever met in my entire life. She has and will continue to be an inspiration to everyone she has touched through her love and dedication for her duties, friends, and family. God bless the Fermin Family.
Sunday 08/21/2005 8:10:57pm
Name: Joe Pallasigui
Locale: Temecula Valley
E-Mail: pallasigui@mysite.com
Thoughts/Condolences On behalf of the brethren of Temecula Valley locale, our deepest sympathy to the family of Eleanor.

Joe Pallasigui and family
Sunday 08/21/2005 7:15:06pm
Name: Domine & Caimpon Family
Locale: Vista, California
E-Mail: krisdc@mail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest condolences to Clint and the Fermin Family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you, may God be with you in this time of sorrow and grief. Eleanor will be missed by all of us.

God Bless,

Gene,Ellen,Elgin,Michael Domine
Allan, Kristine, Christian, Cammie,Colin Caimpon.
Alan and Amber Domine
Sunday 08/21/2005 7:10:25pm
Name: Ellis & Flor Sotto
Locale: Lancaster
E-Mail: florsotto@myyellowstone.net
Thoughts/Condolences
Ka Bobby& Ka Ine,
Our deepest sympathy and most sincere condolences during this trying times for you and your family.
Ka Ely/Flor Sotto
Sunday 08/21/2005 5:43:13pm
Name: Rae
Locale: City of Hope
E-Mail: rtinsley@coh.org
Thoughts/Condolences i made this video with pictures of eleanor, set to music............from all of us at City of Hope. We love you Eleanor.

http://video.mpegnation.com/a001155832789082105172523819

Rae
Sunday 08/21/2005 3:19:18pm
Name: Ka Jun and Arlette Magtuto
Locale: CEM INC Central
E-Mail: ecm_cem@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences

Dear Bro. Bobby and Sister Ine,

Our daughter Emilette passed away when she was just 18. It happened some eleven years ago. She was also a choir member since her CWS days. When it happened, I simply told my wife that way ahead of us, the Lord made her fully qualified for the FIRST RESURRECTION! I am conveying to you the same!!

We are with you in spirit during the moment of your bereavement.
Sunday 08/21/2005 1:55:01pm
Name: Sis. Winnie
Locale: Orlando, Florida
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences It really saddens me to hear about eleanor's passing. She was a great example to us all. I remembered her a long time ago when we used to have district activities. I was really scared of her when Oxnard played them in basketball because she was really good and aggressive. She was also one of the choir members that helped oxnard when we lacked choir members for our thanksgiving worship service. But the one that I really cherish was when she went to Oxnard to visit our kadiwa officers. You see our kadiwa organization in Oxnard that time was not developed but when she came there she inspired us all. She even checked up on us if there was any progress. I remembered what she said to us " I know it's not easy to balance being a kadiwa officer with choir also with school and work but if you put him first you'll see you'll have all the time in the world to do all." I also remembered her saying "I'm an organist as well as choir member. It came to the point where I was being tested to choose from being kadiwa district officer or choir member but through God's grace I'm still here fulfulling my duties." From then on those words of inspiration abide in me and I also apply it to my life until now. I know there will be a time where I will also be tested with my duties but I will look back and remember everything she said and remember her devotion to God.I've never met a person with genuine faith and I also never met a person who embraces her duties as much as she did. She never doubted Oxnard in building the kadiwa organization.She remembered us all by names actually. Everytime she sees us in district events there she was greeting each of us by name and with a smile. She was there to help in any way she can. She showed us how much she cares and how much she loves us all and wants all of us to be save not by scolding us or preaching to us but she showed us through her actions.

To the family, friends, and loved ones that she left behind may you stay strong in the faith as she was in hers.We will pray for you all.
Sunday 08/21/2005 11:10:28am
Name: Joan & Ryan Solitario
Locale: Long Beach, California
E-Mail: joan.solitario@comcast.net
Thoughts/Condolences What can I say about our sister that has not yet already been said? Except my memories of her. I remember when we competed for the football throw, during one of the mini-olympics for the church, and I thought, there you go, she's the first place winner! Eleanor can really throw a football, unlike a lot of guys that I know ;) Oh and I was right, she did win first place :). Another memory with Eleanor was when Ryan and I first stepped into the Montclair house of worship. I saw her and Clint coming down from the choir loft. She greeted us with her famous smile and Clint and her showed us around the chapel, from the baptismal pool to all the secret rooms that many brethren probably haven't seen yet... Those are just some of my memories of her which will last me a lifetime! We miss her very much! Our condolences to the Fermin Family and Clint :(.
Sunday 08/21/2005 10:29:25am
Name: Ron Poblete
Locale: South San Diego
E-Mail: ron@poblete.com
Thoughts/Condolences My family and I send our deepest and most sincere condolences to the entire Fermin Family and to Clint. Our hearts and prayers are with you all and may our Lord God give you strength during this very trying time.

Regards and God Bless

-Ron, Carole, Nico & Kiana Poblete
Sunday 08/21/2005 3:49:07am
Name: Terence
Locale:  
E-Mail: greatdna1@microsoft.frameworks.net
Thoughts/Condolences I would always remember her as "Don't call me Baby".

/our condolences.
Sunday 08/21/2005 2:14:06am
Name: arthur & florie villanueva & family
Locale: h. lopez blvd, tondo, manila,philippines
E-Mail: artflor1969@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences we condole with the family of bro. bobby fermin in the loss of their beloved eleonor. as parents, we could feel the pain in your hearts.
Saturday 08/20/2005 11:04:55pm
Name: Janice Endique
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail: jndk@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I am so glad that ate Eleanor was apart of my life. I knew her as a fellow district KADIWA officer for two years and often kept in touch. I know she touched everyone she knew in many ways. I will miss her so much...but I will always keep with me the memories I had with her. She has finished her race and now we should do the same that we shall see each other again. To the Family of ate Eleanor and to Kuya Clint, my prayers are with you all during these times. We all miss ate Eleanor so much!
Saturday 08/20/2005 10:24:42pm
Name: Sinead Fermin Le
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: emotic_chic@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I cannot recall how old I was when I first met my Tita Eleanor, I must've been too young. However, all that i could remember of her was that bright, warm smile she always had on.

When I heard of what happened I became immobilized for a moment. I almost did not want to believe it was true. In fact for second there I did. I kept hoping it was just a dream that I would soon awake. Yet, upon arriving at her viewing reality hit me and I was soon to face the fact that my beloved tita had passed. And to believe the last time I saw her was not even a month ago (July 27, to be exact)at the Montclair chapel.

We tend to remember her for her smile
And it is the tender moment and memories we have
A loss of beauty and grace
Is denying it from the world
Watching her fulfill her journey
All to its very end
We say our farewells
To our beloved Eleanor.

To the Dela Merced and the rest of the Fermin families stay strong through this dreaded ordeal. Hold hands with one another and embrace the memories you once shared with her.


To Clint, although I barely knew you, my deepest condolences for your loss.

-Sinead
Saturday 08/20/2005 10:09:09pm
Name: Mila Lapuz Fermin
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: emayeley@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Memories go back to my family's visit at your Lola's house in Cordillera. You have the same birth year with Ding, only 9 months ahead. A picture stuck in my mind is with you, Emelyn, Elisa, Ding and Erna, as if you guys were listening to what Ding was saying. Then here in the US, you were always there to give your "hi Tita buzz on the cheek". Those little things mean so much, cannot be erased from one's memory. Prayers for strength to Bob, Ine, Emelyn, Lisa and Clint.
Saturday 08/20/2005 9:05:34pm
Name: Marilyn Nihipali and Chanelle Davidson
Locale:  
E-Mail: hawaiianmelelina@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our prayers are with all.
Saturday 08/20/2005 8:40:40pm
Name: Carlo and Rose Ulep
Locale: Redwood City
E-Mail: caseagent@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Fermin family.
Saturday 08/20/2005 8:30:29pm
Name: Dan August Silva Perenia
Locale: Oxnard
E-Mail: mahiya1@gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences My thoughts and prayers be with her family and loved ones that are left behind. One day we will all meet again in heaven, but know now that her race is over, no more trials, no more sorrows, no more pain for her, she just waits and sleeps till that blessed day. God bless.
Saturday 08/20/2005 8:25:15pm
Name: Bro. Rollie and Sis. Pearlie Poblete
Locale: South San Diego Locale
E-Mail: rollie@poblete.com
Thoughts/Condolences Bro. Bob and Sis. Ine-

Our sincere sympathy and condolences to you and your family.

Bro. Rollie and Sis. Pearlie Poblete and Family
Saturday 08/20/2005 8:24:19pm
Name: Joshua Daniel and Lianawati W.
Locale: Surabaya, Indonesia
E-Mail: joshuad@tulus.com
Thoughts/Condolences She's a cheerful, nice and friendly girl, get along easily with people. I met her last December at a dinner with her family. I will miss her. May God give strength to the family and Clint.
Saturday 08/20/2005 6:40:52pm
Name: Brother Sonny and Sister Rose Correa
Locale: South San Diego
E-Mail: correarose@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences We send our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Fermin family. You are in our prayer for God to give you strength during these difficult times.
Saturday 08/20/2005 6:22:32pm
Name: Bro. Ron Salazar & Family
Locale: Irvine
E-Mail: ron@mr2solutions.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ka Bob & Ka Ine,

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy and sincere condolence to you and your family members.

God Bless,

Bro. Ron Salazar & Family (Marilyn, Nicole & Michael)
Saturday 08/20/2005 4:41:09pm
Name: Dan Capampangan
Locale: Winston Salem, North Carolina
E-Mail: danjcap@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I knew Eleanor from UCI. Although I didn't get a chance to get to know her that well, I remember her having a great positive spirit and always on the go. My condolences go out to the Fermin family.

Sincerely,
Dan Capampangan
Saturday 08/20/2005 4:28:27pm
Name:  
Locale:  
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences I miss you, Eleanor....
Saturday 08/20/2005 4:25:55pm
Name: Kelly Wong
Locale: Anaheim
E-Mail: kdwong2003@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember Eleanor from our days at Ayala and our Badminton practices - she was one of the best girls on our team; Eleanor always had a smile on her face and made our practices fun. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.
Saturday 08/20/2005 3:28:22pm
Name: BEN AND ROSE ANTONIO
Locale: WAIPAHU, HAWAII
E-Mail: abrj@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences To Brother Bobby, Sister Ine and Family,
Our heartfelt condolences!
May God give you strength in these time of grief.
Saturday 08/20/2005 3:25:05pm
Name: Bro.; Fernando Pimentel and Family
Locale: National City
E-Mail: pimentel1234@cox.net
Thoughts/Condolences Our condolences to the whole family. Sister Eleanor for sure will be missed by everyone but we know where she at right now. She truly inspired a lot of her friends and love ones.
Saturday 08/20/2005 2:52:40pm
Name: Percy & Nora Sanchez
Locale: Sacramento, CA
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences The pain never truly goes away, it just gets smaller and condensed tucked away in a corner somewhere in the deep recesses of the heart . . . may we find solace that she has finished her course.
Saturday 08/20/2005 1:14:15pm
Name: Domine Family
Locale: Long Island City, New York
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Our thoughts and prayers are with the Fermin family, and all those who adored her. May God give you all the strength to continue your journey in this life...
Saturday 08/20/2005 12:11:08am
Name: Rochelle Mangona
Locale: North Hollywood
E-Mail: PrincessLuvBug13@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Unfortunately I did not have the opportunity to really get to know Eleanor, but I knew she was a very caring, loving, beautiful person inside and out. She will be truly missed and be continued to be loved by all...

To the Fermin family and Clint, my deepest condolences. May God bless you always...My thoughts and prayers are with you all...
Saturday 08/20/2005 11:45:49am
Name: JUNIOR NAVARRO
Locale: SOUTH SAN DIEGO
E-Mail: navarror@tarawa.navy.mil
Thoughts/Condolences TO THE FERMIN FAMILY I GIVE MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES!! ELEANOR WAS A DISTRICT KADIWA OFFICER WHEN WE FIRST MET! SHE WAS AN OUTSTANDING LEADER AND PERSON! HER SMILE WILL FOREVER BE REMBERED IN MY HEART! SHE HELPED ME BECOME A BETTER OFFICER AND LEADER! ELEANOR YOU WILL BE MISS DEEPLY BY EVERYONE!
Saturday 08/20/2005 10:29:43am
Name: Aldrin Tolentino
Locale: Phoenix, AZ
E-Mail: koyinaz@otmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Condolences to te entire Fermin/Dela Merced Family and to Clint, may our Father in Heaven be your stength in this time of sorrow. I am so fortunate to have known such a beatiful, loving, caring, and bright person like Eleanor. She has always been a great friend to me, giving me advice and always smiling. I love you Eleanor and thank you for your friendship and the good times we've shared.
Saturday 08/20/2005 9:46:01am
Name: mary,alice,& bill kelly.
Locale: stratford [ england .]
E-Mail: williamk96@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences "thy will be done"
GOD BLESS...
deepest wishes
are with you all and family
today and always.
with our deepest
sympathy.
Saturday 08/20/2005 8:03:01am
Name: Ryan Alipio
Locale: Victorville, CA
E-Mail: ralipio@uci.edu
Thoughts/Condolences I remember when Ate Eleanor came to Hesperia to teach Sunday school; I would always smile because she was and always will be one of my favorite childhood teachers and mentors. Her radiant smile and her eloquent voice always brightened up my Sundays. I learned the most about the bible when Ate Eleanor taught, and it seems like that was just yesterday.
Unfortunately, I don't even remember the last time I saw Ate Eleanor, but maybe one day, when this is all over, I will hear her inspiring voice, and see her beautiful smile once more.

To the family of Ate Eleanor, I would like to offer my condolences. Ate Eleanor taught me so much about the bible and life-- I know that I will do great in college because of her guidance and grace. My thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times.
Saturday 08/20/2005 7:39:03am
Name: Loida,Oscar & 3Bs Atienza
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: loida.atienza@mpoercom.net
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor was my "daughter" I will never forget whenever she saw me, she would say "tita,tita......" with a big bear hug,with a full smile on her face....She was a bubbly,caring big sister to my 3 boys. We love you and we will miss you. I was looking forward to be your best "ninang" in the world.

To Clint, we love you as well as we have loved Eleanor, Our heartfelt sympathy, we are always here for you.

Our sympathy and condolences to Eleanor(Ine), Bob, Emelyn, Lisa, Fermin & dela Merced Famly
Saturday 08/20/2005 7:00:32am
Name: The Family of Juan V. & Gloria C. Lopez
Locale: Riverside/Montclair
E-Mail: new_era_realty@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences Sister Eleanor is the "most active" Kadiwa we know. She sets the best example to all of us wearing so many hats of responsbilities in serving our Almighty Father in heaven. Wherever she goes, Sis. Eleanor touched the hearts of the Kabataan, being a teacher and leading them to live righteously; the Binhi, guiding them in all sorts of activities and social affairs; the Kadiwa, leading in sports, social activities, & choir; and the Buklod, teaching us parents to love and care for our families. Beyond these, we each had a good part in her life that we will never forget. We will dearly miss her.

Our condolences to our Beloved Bro. Clint, Bro. Bobby & Sis. Eleanor Fermin & Family.
Saturday 08/20/2005 6:29:01am
Name: Ruel Paa
Locale: Temecula Valley
E-Mail: ruel64@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest sympathy to the family.
Saturday 08/20/2005 3:43:12am
Name: Christian and Sherryl Mascarinas
Locale: Rockland, NY
E-Mail: elite75@optonline.net
Thoughts/Condolences To my dear cousin Eleanor - your bright and shining light will be remembered always.
Saturday 08/20/2005 0:42:21am
Name: Chris Basa
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: Crispypata86@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences im going to miss ate eleanor. she always knew what to say when ever i needed help. she always made me laugh too i will miss that. She is a kind and loving person.
Friday 08/19/2005 10:25:29pm
Name: Grace, Lorraine, & Ian
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: ic181181@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our hearts and deepest condolences to the Fermin and Dela Merced family. May the Lord provide you with strength through this difficult time. God bless.
Friday 08/19/2005 10:16:32pm
Name: Katherine Santos
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: katherinemsantos@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences "...Then death is but a slumber. Sweet rest when all is done. Awakened by the wonder. Of Your returning Son."

My thoughts and prayers are with the Fermin and Dela Merced Family, Clint, and all those she loved during this difficult time.
Friday 08/19/2005 10:16:05pm
Name: Lucinda Sandi
Locale: North San Diego
E-Mail: Lucindasandi@ Hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences When I think of Eleanor, I remember the days of adolesence and I can't help but to smile. We were both so young and innocent when my life was touched by Eleanor long ago. I remember her as a good friend who was not quick to judge and always saw the good in everyone. I remember Eleanor as a passionate member of the Church Of Christ,devoted sister, and daughter to her family. She loved her family and treasured her duty with all her heart. I have nothing but good memories of Eleanor and I thank God for all the moments I had with her. I will truely miss her and she will always be in my heart. My deepest & sincere condolences to the Fermin Family and to Clint. May God uphold us all through this time of great sorrow...

Sister Cindy L. Sandi
Friday 08/19/2005 9:50:07pm
Name: Paulina Paulin
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: animefreek1991@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Even though I did not know Sister Eleanor well I will surely miss her. She was a good example of an officer in the church. Whenever I felt like i did not want to go to choir practice, because i was tired or did not feel well, i always thought how she always fulfilled her duties. When she tought the Children's Worship Service she always gave funny, good examples. She can make anyone smile. Sister Eleanor you will be greatly missed by all.

 
Friday 08/19/2005 9:37:56pm
Name: Mel & Leni Agagas
Locale: Pasadena
E-Mail: redskeptic@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember the Fermins when they first came to SGV from P.I. When we were much much younger Eleanor and I hung out together and I remember how cool it was that she was in a youth softball league--not many girls were athletic like her. After leaving SGV, we'd see each other at many District events and she was always very friendly. And like many ppl, it's her smile I remember whenever she greeted me. Mel also remembers her as being a warm, friendly person. When he first met her she was the one to introduce herself to him at a KADIWA activity.

As tragic as her passing may be, it's a great comfort knowing she triumphantly finished her race. Our deepest sympathies go out to her family and to Clint. God bless you in your sadness.
Friday 08/19/2005 9:32:54pm
Name: PAULIN/SARMIENTO'S FAMILY
Locale: MONTCLAIR, CA
E-Mail: NANCYPAULIN@YAHOO.COM
Thoughts/Condolences With much love and care we are extending our deepest sympathy to the family of Sister Eleanor, to the Fermin/Dela Merced family and relatives. Sister Eleanor will be truly missed by us whom she touched our hearts by showing a very good example of a faithful member of the Iglesia ni Cristo until the end.
With hope and prayers, that us, whom she left behind could follow her zest in fulfilling her divine duty to God.
Her smiles and lovely face will be missed.
Ka Bobby, Ka Ine, and family, our love and prayers are always with you.

From, Bro. Eloy, Sis. Nancy, and Family
Friday 08/19/2005 9:29:37pm
Name: Vanessa Chuate Torres
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail: vanessageline@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ate Eleanor is like a sister to me. I got to know her more when we were both in the District. She always made me laugh. I remember all of us kadiwa district officers staying up till 4am trying to get "This Little Light of Mine" song right. Ate Eleanor was the one leading us. There would be many moments we had to stop cuz of cracking up. She's soooo hilarious. Thats what i'll probably remember most about her, she could turn a stressful situation into a comedy act. (love you ate eleanor! i'll miss you!)
Friday 08/19/2005 9:28:24pm
Name: Bro Bob Pellien & family
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: bpellien@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Sister Eleanor made the lives of all who knew her, better. We pray for God's peace to warm the hearts of the Fermin family now and always.
Friday 08/19/2005 9:04:50pm
Name: Melirue & Mallory Fermin
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: Melirue@Charter.net
Thoughts/Condolences Whenever I think of Eleanor, I see her smiling at me. Her smile lite up her face. Every time I saw her, she was always smiling and so happy. She made others around her happy as well.

My memories of Eleanor are always connected to the "3 Fermin Girls" (Emylene, Eleanor, and Lisa) are always together in my mind. I remember just having a great time with the 3 girls and their Lola in the Philippines. The 3 girls would spend their summers in the Philippines and we would always meet each other at Central. We would then go out for lunch or dinner and even go bowling at their Lola's bowling alley. It was always a joy to be around the "3 Fermin Girls".

We will miss Eleanor terribly, but she will always be in our hearts and memories!

To Tito Bob, Tita Ine, Emylene, and Lisa: May our Lord God give you strength and comfort during this time of sorrow. May you find peace in knowing that she finished her course and we will see her again on the Lord's Day.
Friday 08/19/2005 8:50:54pm
Name: Dindo
Locale: San Gabriel
E-Mail: LeoD434@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences so many fond memories I have and always cherish. Growing up and singing with Eleanor.. she will be missed, but her laughter will always be heard, her smile will always be seen and her love always felt.
Friday 08/19/2005 8:23:39pm
Name: Ian Cruz
Locale: Anaheim
E-Mail: Icruz90620@sbcglobal.net
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor Is the most kind and caring I have ever met in the the Kadiwa Organization. She was the one who always approached and acitivated those that were inactive in the organization. With her kind words and kind smile she touched each and every person she spoke to, with words of encouragement she helped out many, find there way in the Kadiwa organization. Pleasure knowing such a great person and she will always be remembered and in all our hearts.
Friday 08/19/2005 7:32:54pm
Name: Lyssa Valentin and Hector De la torre
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: mvalentin@mckently.com
Thoughts/Condolences It was always so pleasant when Eleanor was around, the charm of her smile always brighten up the room. It was always part of her arrival to greet you with hugs, kisses and a wonderful smile. I will dearly miss Eleanor.
Our lives have been enriched immeasurably by our love and association with our dear sister. Our prayers for the comfort and solace to the family and friends grieving the love of such a precious soul.

~Lyssa Valentin
& Hector De La Torre
Friday 08/19/2005 7:29:13pm
Name: Tina Callejo
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail: ccallejo@nokidding-his.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor has finished her race. She graduated with honors. She served and gave her best. Lived a full and happy life. Eleanor brought pride and joy to our family. She was going to be my successor in organizing family gatherings. Pot lucks always added a sparkle to her eyes. She loved Amah's pancit. I miss her so much that it hurts. It will never be the same without her. I love you, Be'
Friday 08/19/2005 6:38:20pm
Name: June, Pina, Dominique & Angelo Flores
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: julio-flores@sbcglobal.net
Thoughts/Condolences Our sincerest condolence to the Fermin and the Dela Merced Family. May God bless and strengthen all of you through this trying times.
Friday 08/19/2005 6:15:08pm
Name: Daniel Sarmiento
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: danielrsarmiento@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ate Eleanor your love and care has taught me well thank you for everything you taught me and thanks for helping me out with school. See you in the Holy City.
Friday 08/19/2005 5:31:07pm
Name: Erna Fermin Le
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: plebian_myth101@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences In addition to her friendly, charismatic personality, Eleanor had an exuberant sense of humor. She had a natural knack for story telling that captivated anyone within hearing distance. I remember one story she told when she used to go to UCI; she had to inject a lab mouse with Parkinson's causing it to run in circles then sit on its hind legs while nibbling on a piece of shredding and then falling flat on its back. The story is a lot funnier with Eleanor telling it with her re-enactment skills.
Many have noted her smile, but what I will miss most about her is her contagious laugh. Eleanor had one of those laughs that made me laugh just because she was laughing--even before finding out what happened, I just couldn't help laughing with her.

Eleanor, we miss you dearly.

-Erna and Sinead
Friday 08/19/2005 5:05:04pm
Name: Romeo & Fe Evangelista
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail: romeoevangelista1@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences On behalf of my family I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to the Fermin Family and Clint. May God continue to give you strength in these times of trials.

Love,
Ninong Romy & Family
Friday 08/19/2005 5:03:56pm
Name: Bro. Samuel Paran & Family
Locale: US Office of TV Evangelism
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Being born of Christian parents, Sister Eleanor will forever be a true Christian from womb to tomb and even beyond as Apostle Paul says in

I Thess. 4:13-14 NLT)
13And now, brothers and sisters, I want you to know what will happen to the Christians who have died so you will not be full of sorrow like people who have no hope. 14For since we believe that Jesus died and was raised to life again, we also believe that when Jesus comes, God will bring back with Jesus all the Christians who have died.

1 Cor. 15:51 TEV
Listen to this secret truth: we shall not all die, but when the last trumpet sounds, we shall all be changed in an instant, as quickly as the blinking of an eye. For when the trumpet sounds, the dead will be raised, never to die again, and we shall all be changed.

Our deepest condolences ...
Friday 08/19/2005 4:22:49pm
Name: Sis. Jennifer Pineda-Dayrit
Locale: Oxnard, Southern CA
E-Mail: jdayrit@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences When I hear the name Sis. Eleanor Fermin, there is one thing that stands out in my mind and that was our District Leadership Enhancement training in Anaheim on July 14, 2001. At the end of that day, all of the brethren got a chance to volunteer to go up and read their “Personal Mission Statement” in front of everyone.

Eleanor’s speech was the only one I remember, because when she read her promise to our Almighty God and our Lord Jesus Christ in front of all the brethren, it really touched me and everyone. I remember thinking then, this sister is different, truly faithful and her words made a great impact on me. I remember she started crying during her speech and then all of the brethren felt the Holy Spirit and we all started crying.

That is one speech I will never forget and I thought that this sister was really special and a great example to us all and she fulfilled her calling, she fulfilled her "mission" (as she declared in her speech) and remained faithful to the end.

To our Sis. Eleanor’s family, may our Lord God be with you always and may you have comfort in knowing that we will all be together again in the heavenly kingdom.
Friday 08/19/2005 3:23:14pm
Name: Bro. Lionel De la Uso
Locale: Eagle Rock
E-Mail: liondeuso2@sbcglobal.net
Thoughts/Condolences I Tesalonica 4:16 KJV
16For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first:
Friday 08/19/2005 2:28:33pm
Name: Bob Papa
Locale: National City
E-Mail: bobpapa@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences I got to know Eleanor through our meetings as District Officers. She was always smiling and in a good mood and made the meetings a little more bearable. For the short time that I got to know Eleanor you could tell that she really loved her family and her membership inside of the Church. She is an example of how we should all live our lives.

Condolences to the Fermin family.
Friday 08/19/2005 2:17:46pm
Name: Alfred Reft
Locale: Honolulu
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor...everytime i hear the name i envision her running up to me at functions with only the biggest smile and a big hug. there's something special about someone like Eleanor that i feel words do no justice for. I will just say that she was a genuine and unique spirit...She will truly be missed. My prayers go out to her family and friends. God bless you all.
Friday 08/19/2005 1:46:46pm
Name: Happy
Locale: North Hollywood
E-Mail: TitoHaps@Gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I think shes number 3 or 2 on my top ten list of most Beautiful smiles >) everrrr... I told her that many times.
So many lives Eleanor has touched, near and far. I dont need to say much because you can probably read the 18 pages behind my post and the other 100 pages that will be entered, all I need to say is that I truly looked up to her as a TRUE Officer in the Church. I also looked up to her as a person, kind and funny, beautiful and cheerful, faithful and obedient, need I say more???
Condolences to the Family, Clint, and friends. I wish I was more fortunate to know her more than I did, but I believe for the short time that I knew her, being an officer with her in the District Kadiwa, was enough. I've learned many aspects from her and hope to carry on. I am Happy (literally) that God has given her rest. See you soon, hey, maybe we can all play Mafia again and throw ketchup bombs at each others vans :-) Think we'll be allowed to do that up there?

-Happy
Friday 08/19/2005 1:32:44pm
Name: Cheryl Aguba
Locale: Chino Hills
E-Mail: cherylaguba@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I'll always remember the times when we were in high school together and how we became badminton partners. She was always pushing me to better myself and always made me laugh. She was truly a great partner and friend. She will always have a place in my heart. My condolences to her family.
Friday 08/19/2005 1:09:35pm
Name: Arcie Mangona
Locale: North Hollywood
E-Mail: arcie.mangona@farmersinsurance.com
Thoughts/Condolences My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Eleanor. May God be with you all through this trobled time.
Friday 08/19/2005 1:08:56pm
Name: Florgel C. Valdez
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: gell0kitty@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences From the moment I transferred to Montclair, Ate Eleanor welcomed me with open arms and already treated me like a little sister. Ever since, I've looked up to her (literally) as my "Ate." She has always been there through thick and thin, through the ups and downs. She was always looking out for me; she always had the right words to say every time I was down. One of the pieces of advice she gave, which I will never forget was, “Whenever you need someone to talk to, you come to the Chapel and pray your heart out. And afterwards, if you still need someone, walk over to my house because I will always be there for you.” She made me laugh, and she made me cry… from laughing so much. I love her with all my heart, and I have unbelievable respect for her. She was raised by great parents and was a very loving, caring member of her family. She was active in all of her duties, which was an inspiration to us all. She was a strong leader, a loyal friend, and overall… an awesome person to know.

It would be selfish of me to say that, "I wish she were still here" but I can't help but miss her so much. I truly feel as if a part of me has been taken away, but at the same time, the memories I have of her have filled the empty places of my heart. I miss her hugs, I miss her smile, and I will always miss the joy that she brings every time she enters a room. I am thankful to God that she is finally at rest and getting the peace that she deserves. With the short time that I have known her, she’s already made more of an impact than most people I’ve known for years. I know that nobody’s perfect, but to me, she was. I know she already has a place in heaven, but for now, she’ll always have a place in my heart.

On behalf of my family, we would like to express our deepest condolences to the Fermin/Dela Merced family. We love you very much and your family has never left our prayers. We will always be here for you.
Friday 08/19/2005 12:54:56am
Name: Theresa Madrigal
Locale: National City
E-Mail: mad4inc@cox.net
Thoughts/Condolences The Madrigal Family send our deepest condolences for the loss of Eleanor. Everytime I saw Eleanor, she had a smile on her . . . Our prayers go out to the family for the strenght and courage that you need in this time of deep sadness.
Friday 08/19/2005 12:07:15am
Name: Ken Basa
Locale: North Hollywood
E-Mail: asabnek@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember the first day i transfered to Montclair ate eleanor walked up to me said hi and invited me to her house for dinner. From that day on i grew on to respect her as a person and a sister in the faith. She was one of few people who never judged me on who i was and how i played but always gave me that extra push to do the best i can. i will miss you ate eleanor and i will strive harder in performing my duties to god as you did so that i may see you again in the Holy City.

To the Fermin family and Clint my deepest sympathy from my family to yours. May God be with us all through these times.
Friday 08/19/2005 11:52:00am
Name: Bro. Roger A.Valdez
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: rogervaldez2@netzero.com
Thoughts/Condolences I gonna miss Eleonor so much. When ever I got assigned in Panama , Tijuana and distant locales, thinking of the locale especially the Kadiwa Organization and my children Florgel and Mark who love her so much,I feel secured knowing she is in the locale. I gonna miss her smile with those chinky eyes , contagious laughter and her vibrant and always inspiring presence in all the Church activities. She is precious. Ps. 116:15 " Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His Saints". We shall see each other again someday. Eleonor is sure about this. I and my family will make sure we shall meet again. God bless all the people touched by Eleonor's life.

Lots of love, your would be Ninong,

Bro. Roger, Flor, Florgel and Mark Valdez
Friday 08/19/2005 11:24:18am
Name: Aaron Funiestas
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: AaRoNLuVsBeTTy@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences i only knew her for three and a half years....nd through that time she has been an inspiration to my family and me......she taught us how it is important to serve and worship god with all our hearts and to remain faithful to him because at any second, at any time, at any day, and any moment he can take our lives away from us no matter who we are....right now i juss want to wish the best of luck to her entire family and to brother Clint...who could've been a happy, married couple....

Aaron Funiestas
Friday 08/19/2005 11:11:25am
Name: Daina Munar
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: kyutediva@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences My condolences to Ka Bob, Ka Ine, Ate Emylene, and Ate Lisa. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

I will never forget Ate Eleanor. She was a great inspiration and role model to me and always will be. Through all her duties I always saw how wholehearted she was and i only wish to lead a righteous life as she did. She never treated me as if i was a little girl, just as an equal, and i thank her so dearly.

Ate Eleanor, I love you and thank you from the bottom of my heart, and you will never be forgotted.
Friday 08/19/2005 10:29:35am
Name: Rick and Sarah San Antonio-Santos
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: ssantos@stemcyte.com
Thoughts/Condolences Condolence to Ka Bob and Ka Ine and the rest of the dela Merced-Fermin family. What a lucky daughter you have, to have finished her course. We are still in our journey. May all of you be comforted during this trying time.
Friday 08/19/2005 9:53:35am
Name: Benedicto B. Co
Locale: Riverside
E-Mail: benjo124@juno.com
Thoughts/Condolences Death comes to man's life unexpectedly. But we know as members of the Church of Christ, death is just a sleep. When the Lord Jesus comes, He will wake us up and bring us to the Father to inherit the salvation and eternal life in the Holy City.

We feel the pain of the loss of our loved one but there is joy in our heart that she is resting or sleeping only and to be awakened and to open her eyes in the Holy City. She finished her course. May all of us do the same to remain in the Church of Christ until our last breath or until the day of Judgment.

To the family of Bro. Robert, we extend our symphaty and condolence.
Friday 08/19/2005 9:45:08am
Name: Lilia & David Villamil
Locale: Monctlair
E-Mail: lvillamil@questhomeinfo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ninong Bob, Ninang Ine,
I,once lost a loved one but I can not even compare the pain you are going through right now. We've all seen her last week before She left for tenessee. The smile that we will always picture of her that she can still be with us in our hearts.Eleanor has been an inspiration to us all. Although her death was untimely, She lived a full and awesome life. She accomplished more than most people in her lifetime. It is our belief she has a greater calling.
Ninong, Ninang, Please be strong, there's still a lot of us who need you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Friday 08/19/2005 9:16:10am
Name: Haydee-Diane Evalle
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: artemis727@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor's passing came as a shock to me. I was just talking to her after the service two weeks ago and she had asked me if I wanted to become a kadiwa officer. She also showed me her engagement ring and I could tell that she was happy. She has always been a leader who encouraged others to become active in the church. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. Although Eleanor is no longer with us, I know that the legacy she left behind will continue to inspire her friends and family to remain active in their duties to God.
Friday 08/19/2005 8:44:52am
Name: Christian Quan
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: haze_romeo_quan@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember her when i was a little kid. And I'm so sorry this had to happen. I just want to say my thoughts are with her family. I hope it will get better in due time I know it hurts but I hope things will get mended ok. Ok Sis. Eleanor may you be blessed watching from above. Ok that's it from me..
Friday 08/19/2005 8:41:19am
Name: Bro. Steve & Sis. Julie Wood
Locale: Rockland NY
E-Mail: sw1914@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences We would like to express our deepest sympathy to your family and may God bless you with strength of faith to accept His will. Sis. Eleanor's race of faith is completed and what awaits is the blessing of resurrection and life everlasting in God's Heavenly Kingdom.
Friday 08/19/2005 8:34:23am
Name: Lynn Ordinario
Locale: Long Beach, CA
E-Mail: Lynno923@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences In my heart, I will always remember Eleanor's welcoming bright smile and warm hugs. She was full of laughter and had an incredible nack of spreading that infectious laugh to everyone around her. It was only a couple of months ago did I see her, and she was glowing! I'm pretty sure it was that fact that she was about to prepare for her wedding with Clint. I know she is in a happier place now - at peace. God blessed Eleanor with a soul mate that respected her, took care of her, and loved her immensely - that was Clint (and vice versa for Clint). My condolences to Eleanor's entire family and to Clint.
Friday 08/19/2005 7:45:51am
Name: John & Roenna del Rosario
Locale: Fremont
E-Mail: roenna@efi.com
Thoughts/Condolences Extending our thoughts and prayers to the Fermin family. May God be with you always during this difficult time.
Friday 08/19/2005 7:33:30am
Name: GIles & Michelle Ordinario
Locale: Long Beach, CA
E-Mail: giles630@alumni.usc.edu
Thoughts/Condolences Every Thought and Memory that comes to mind with Eleanor is Always accompanied with Joy, Happiness and Hope- a Beautiful Smile, an Infectious Laugh, and most especially a Deep Love for her Faith and Offices in the Church.... What a Blessing She has been to our lives! We will Keep Her Family and Loved ones in our Prayers during this time of Bereavement, and will Always Cherish Every Joyful Memory of Our Loved Sister. She Is Deeply Missed.
Friday 08/19/2005 7:25:38am
Name: Dina Tiangco-Medrano
Locale: Austin, TX
E-Mail: dinacor@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ka Bobby, Ka Ine, Emylene, and Lisa... my deepest sympathy and condolences. May God continue to give you strength at this time of sorrow.
Friday 08/19/2005 7:00:13am
Name: Nelson Salvatera
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail: nelly13b@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences The friendliest and most welcoming person I have ever met when I attended Montclair's open forum. Such a loss in this world but God knows what is best. She is a perfect example of how Kadiwas should be. Blessed with many offices which she all performed actively, she finished her race faithfully 'till the end. Let us all be like this wonderful sister and stay strong in our faith, doing our best to live righteously for the end is near. She is truly missed by everyone who has met her. My condolences to her family....we'll see you in the end Sis. Eleanor
Friday 08/19/2005 5:27:13am
Name: Mae Eleanor Valdez
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: maevaldez@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I thank God for he had given me a chance to feel her kindness and warmth as a person and as a diligent officer in the Church of Christ. I remember when I use to go to Montclair locale for choir practice and I would see Eleanor, she never failed to greet me and say 'Hi Ate Mae, how are you?,How's Josh?'(my eldest). After we sang for the adult worship service, she would hurrily change to her white dress, to perform in the children's worship service. She was diligent, smart and lovely at the same time. I would surely miss Eleanor. My condolences to Clint and the Fermin family.
Friday 08/19/2005 4:44:55am
Name: Jodi de Leon
Locale: Chino Hills, CA
E-Mail: sweetie_mee@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Remembering our days at Ayala and playing badminton, the fun times we spent at practice and games. She was always kind and would make friends with the other students from other schools. She would make us laugh and made our games day fun. Eleanor will always remain in my heart and my memory.
Friday 08/19/2005 1:55:51am
Name: Lorna Logina
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: lorgina@netzero.com
Thoughts/Condolences How I know Eleanor, I became part of her family when she was only 8 years old. I helped her parents, Robert “kuya Bob” and Eleanor Sr. ”ate Ine” cared and looked after her along with her two sisters, Emylene and Elisa. All I can say about Eleanor is that she is the epitome of only the positive and bright side of life. She knows exactly how to cheer up people who’s down and depressed. She’s a person that never give the negative sides a chance to even pick in her vibrant attitude and personality. I have so much memories of her that I would cherish always. I am so sad because she leaves us so early but I am so happy also because she leaves knowing that she was strong, steadfast and remained in her duties to God until her last breath. Eleanor will surely sorely be missed.
Thursday 08/18/2005 11:56:10pm
Name: Jonathan Grein
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: j0n77@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I am fortunate enough to have known Eleanor so well through college. I always considered her one of my best friends through the best years of my life. We spent so much time together, but it doesn't matter how much time we spent because she was one of those rare people who if you've only met her for five minutes you felt you'd known her your entire life. She had a way of making everyone feel so special. I am so lucky to have known her. I feel a piece of me is missing now. My deepest and most sincere condolences to her family and Clint, I can't even imagine... these simple words arent even close to enough...

The most we can ever ask for in this world is to change it for the better. Eleanor did this every day, with every beautiful smile, every person she met. I have only great memories of her, so many that I'll be thankful for the rest of my life.

Eleanor, we love you. We miss you and it really hurts. The world is a better place because you were here. You will be with me and all of us every day. Thank you for being there. Rest now and be at peace.

To the family and Clint, thank you for your kindness you've always shown me, it will never be forgotten.
Thursday 08/18/2005 11:16:40pm
Name: Marlene Barbero
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: MABarbero@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences There are those whom God blesses in a very special way; with an inner light that touches the heart of everyone around them. Eleanor was such a very special child of God. We saw God's love in the work she did with the youth and young people of the church. Eleanor's life was a testament of her love for God, her family, and friends. Her life is a legacy of love that continues to teach us everytime we remember her. Thank you Eleanor, for sharing your special light with us all. My heartfelt prayers and love are with the family she leaves behind.
Thursday 08/18/2005 10:09:31pm
Name: Jen Galang
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: jengalang@adelphia.net
Thoughts/Condolences I will always remember the long conversations I had with Eleanor about life. I always considered her a great example and partner in crime. When I graduated and was scared to face the real world, she walked me through it. When I was worried about matters of the heart, she often offered advice to help me become stronger. She understood when I got a job and everything was hard to juggle. She would always be so encouraging. It was awesome to have someone who went through similar things I did. Training to become an organist is hard but having her there made it easier because I had a partner and someone to share my frustrations with. I will forever miss the way she would come into choir practice, knocking over all our hymnbooks with her rolly bag. Her vibrant smile and her love for life. I will miss seeing how happy she was to be in love. Everyone is right when they say that her smile could light up a room. I consider myself lucky to have been so close, to be able to say that she was my "sis".

Tito Bob, Tita Ine, Em, Lis and Clintok- my deepest prayers are with you always. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of your lives.
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:21:54pm
Name: mark valdez
Locale: montclair
E-Mail: lossfuwords406@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences i remember her telling me to bring cut-up watermelons for the joint kad-buklod meeting on the 21st. :P

(eleanor, i'll miss you dearly..)


way to finish strong :)
we'll see you soon..
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:01:47pm
Name: Bro. Joel and Sis Wilma Relevo Borce
Locale: Locale of Honolulu HI and Anchorage AK
E-Mail: joelborce@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Where to start...remembering moments brings tears to my eyes...I met Sis. Eleanor along with Sis. Elisa when they were vacationing in Hawaii year 2000...it was so cool meeting someone like her..and I remember the card that Eleanor and Elisa gave me thanking me for showing them a great time in Hawaii with the other kadiwas..and I was so happy that they showed the same hospitality or should I say Aloha to me when I visited Southern California couple months after they visited Hawaii..I specifically remember playing chubby bunny(marshmallow eating contest) at their home..those were great times..Sis Eleanor you are a wonderful person you will surely be missed but we all know we shall see you again on that glorious day! my condolences to Bro Bob, Sis Ine, Sis Emylene and Sis Elisa. Clint, my condolences to you Bro..sorry I havent kept in touch..but I am here for you!
May God Bless You All....

here are a few pics that I found of Our Beautiful Sis. Eleanor Fermin II

 
Thursday 08/18/2005 8:54:10pm
Name: Heather Zuniga
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: greatheather2003@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember Ate Eleanor as a happy person. She always greet people with her smiling face and was respectful to the elders. She was always performing her duties, as a choir member, CWS teacher, organist and Kadiwa President. She had so many responsibilities but she was always able to balance everything. Ate Eleanor was someone who I looked up to and I wish I will be like her someday and achieve like her. My Condolences goes out to Tito Bob, Tita Ine, Emylene, Elisa and Clint.

A Place To Rest

God looked down on your body,
So tired from hanging on,
From a life that was overwhelming you,
And wanted back you.
So he took away the air you breathe,
And gave you what was best,
A place to be at peace,
A final place to rest.

You Meant So Much

You meant so much to me
You were special and that's no lie
You brightened up the darkest day
And the cloudiest sky

Your smile alone warmed my heart
Your laugh was like music to hear
I would give absolutely anything
To have you well and standing near

She will be surely missed.

We being all members of the Iglesia Ni Cristo, we know that one day we will see each other again.
Thursday 08/18/2005 8:50:22pm
Name: Floyd Avila
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail: floyd_avila@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences My Condolences to Eleanor's family and friends, Though I've never had the chance to meet her I've known Clint for a while. I'm sorry to hear of the loss. God be with us all in our journey.
Thursday 08/18/2005 8:49:30pm
Name: Jamie Lai
Locale: Hacienda Heights
E-Mail: jamie9777@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I don't even know where to begin...Eleanor or "Lea" was always there for you and always made you feel special, from the first memories i have of her 18 years ago playing tetherball to carpooling to our first day at UCI (and the many years after), to all the endless laughter and memories we've shared...they will always carry a very special place in my heart. My thoughts and deepest sympathies to Mr. and Mrs. Fermin, Emylene, Elisa, Clint and her entire family. She will truly be missed and alway remembered.
Thursday 08/18/2005 8:33:10pm
Name: Melissa
Locale: Riverside
E-Mail: mellissimo@graffiti.net
Thoughts/Condolences To friends and family of Sis. Eleanor,

My condolences to you all for the loss of our sister. I thank God I was able to meet her. She was very nice to me when I was in Montclair, she made me feel at home though I was in a new place. I have always been inspired to see her many acts of service at all times. She was a wonderful choir member who I could see hear that sang with all her heart during WS. Her life and sudden loss have touched me deeply during these days.
We're gonna make it together.
God Bless
Thursday 08/18/2005 8:24:18pm
Name: Janlynn Valerio
Locale: Honolulu, Hawaii but now San Francisco
E-Mail: janlynn.valerio@gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I met her and ate lisa when she visited Hawaii a few years ago, I remember her smile being so warm and welcoming...we clicked in an instant! A year later I visited them and they introduced me to Cheesecake Factory in Old Town Pasadena, she even said she wanted to take me snowboarding...the last time I saw her was a year ago, in Anaheim, I was sitting in back of her during a choir mtg and i kept thinking "Is that ate Els? She looks so familar!! Is that her?" Then she saw me and she was like "Jan? What are you doing here?!?" LoL!! I love her! Its admirable to know that she died an active member, my condolences to those that were close to her =)
Thursday 08/18/2005 8:02:51pm
Name: Kuya Boyet and Ate Kat Lapuz
Locale: Anaheim/SGV
E-Mail: elapuz@sbcglobal.net
Thoughts/Condolences We still remember Eleanor singing "Close To You" by the Carpenters along with her sisters on my 18th birthday. That was 15 years ago; Eleanor was only 13. That was one of our fondest memories of her.
Her passing has weighed heavily on our hearts. We will miss her...
Tita Ine, Tito Bobby, Lisa, and Emylynn, our deepest condolences. We pray that God give you strength and peace.
Boyet, Katherine and Chance
Thursday 08/18/2005 8:00:59pm
Name: Rey & Fairy
Locale: Montclair & New Era
E-Mail: Reinierdevera@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences "Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
And the dreams that you dream of once in a lullaby

Somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly
And the dreams that you dream of
Dreams really do come true.

Someday I wish upon a star
Wakeup where the clouds are far behind me
Where trouble melts like lemondrops
High above the chimney top
That's where you'll find me

Somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly
And the dreams that you dare to
Oh why oh why can't I

Well i see tree's of green and red roses to
I'll watch them bloom for me and you
And i think to myself
What a wonderful world

Well i see skies of blue and
I see clouds of white
And the brightness of day
I like the dark
And i think to myself what a wonderful world.

The colours of the rainbow
So pretty in the sky
I also one the faces of people passing by
I see friends shaking hands saying
How do you do
They're really saying I I love you

I hear babies cry and I watch them grow
They'll learn much more then we'll know
And i think to myself what a wonderful world
World

Someday I wish upon a star
Wakeup where the clouds are far behind me
Well trouble melts like lemondrops
High above the chimney top
That's where you'll find me

Oh somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
And the dreams that you dare to
Why oh why can't I"

Eleanor was with me through some of the most memorable and greatest times of my life, I'll never forget the 80th anniversary in San Diego and the 1994 campout in the locale of Oxnard, the Montclair trips to Yosemite National Forrest and Grand Canyon, to times of more recent memories, to her support and care for me when I was going through kidney failure, she was always positive and faithful til the very end, she was headed for greatness, and greatness is where she'll be, I'm gonna miss very much in this life, but it's in the next life that I can't wait to meet her again.

My condolences to Ka Bobby and Ka Ine and to my close friends Emylene and Elisa, and Clint, I share your loss as anyone else who was truly fortunate enough to know Eleanor. May the Lord God and Christ Jesus be with you and keep you all strong.

"ALOHA 'OE SISTAH ELEANOR"

Rey & Fairy
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:39:04pm
Name: Marisol Caceres
Locale: North San Diego
E-Mail: psmpjm@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember first meeting Ate Eleanor and Ate Lisa during try outs for the 30th Anniversary Celebration...I'll never forget the kindness that she's shown me, and the fun we had at the various events we attended together. She truly shined as a light in this world, and I'm glad to have had her in my life.
My sincerest condolences to Ate Lisa and family. <3 Always, Marisol
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:32:38pm
Name: Jamie Mamaril
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: pnaidotorg@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences i didnt know ate eleanor that well, but i shared a lot of memories with her. i remember when i wasnt into the church and felt like an outcast...she was there for me. regardless of what people said, she never judged me. she had me attend church events and be more active. i remember when we went snowboarding , i got frustrated and mad because i kept falling, but she motivated me to keep trying. during bible studies, she would tell jokes when the minister turned his back. i felt in place at church because of her. i felt that someone actually cared and noticed me at church. shes the one who made me active. without her, i'd be dead in god's eyes. i cant thank her enough...shes been such a great impact on my life. i wish i could have spent more time with her. thank you so much ate eleanor. we'll meet again someday. i love you ate eleanor.
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:19:14pm
Name: Steve, Juiliet Inocencio & family
Locale: Arlington - Florida
E-Mail: steveinocencio@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences We would like to extend our wholehearted condolence. Ninong Bobby, Ninang Ine, Emylene & Elisa our prayers and thoughts are with you po.
II Timothy 4:6-8 NKJV
6For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure is at hand. 7I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8Finally, there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His appearing.

from: Bro. Steve, Sis. Juliet, Katelene & Erlix Inocencio
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:17:44pm
Name: Lubrica Family
Locale: Riverside
E-Mail: bebng0118@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our deepest condolence to her family. It's never easy to loose a love one but fortunately, we being all members of the Iglesia Ni Cristo, we know that one day we will see each other again.
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:04:08pm
Name: EmiBel
Locale: riverside
E-Mail: bebeng0118@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences She will be greatly missed. =C
Thursday 08/18/2005 6:43:32pm
Name: Liz Ciubal
Locale: Riverside
E-Mail: lizay_33@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I've known Eleanor for a few years now. The one thing that I'll always remember her by is that she was always performing her duties, as a choir member, CWS teacher, organist and Kadiwa President. Eleanor was someone who I looked up to and I wish I had her strive to always keep on going. I miss you girl!!
Thursday 08/18/2005 5:32:18pm
Name: HENRY & LIEZL SORIANO
Locale: ST. PETERSBURG, FL.
E-Mail: KULOTZ@MSN.COM
Thoughts/Condolences NAKIKIRAMAY PO KAMI...
Thursday 08/18/2005 4:17:39pm
Name: Gilbert Tayag
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: cggilbycg@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences "If you want it, it's yours. There's hope for everything, and no matter what the circumstances, keep going."

That was the last bit of advice that Eleanor gave me before she passed. I think I speak for everyone when I say that she was someone that lit up our days, giving us inspiration when we needed it. The last time we actually talked was at bakers square with clint and daniel and daniel was planning his classes for poly. It was that day when she told me to keep going, when everything was down. I'll never forget that day. She kept the Kadiwa together, making us perform above par level. It was because of her that made achieve great success in the Kadiwa. She will be truly missed by all of us.

My condolences for the Fermin family. Were here if you need anything.

She was the greatest inspiration to touch all of us.

Thank you Ate Eleanor.
Thursday 08/18/2005 4:02:03pm
Name: Arnaldo Alalayin
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: aalalayin@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ka Bobby, Ka Ine, Emilyn, and Lisa please accept my deepest sympathy and condolences. I pray that God will give you strength and endurance during your time of needs and sorrows.
Thursday 08/18/2005 4:01:02pm
Name: Jamaal
Locale: Montclair (kinda)
E-Mail: sc0rpi0n676@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences I think first of her beautiful voice as she sang my favorite song of all time "o promise me" at penny's wedding. And then of her infectious smile it could really lite up a room.
Thursday 08/18/2005 3:55:56pm
Name: Czabel Donado
Locale: Los Angeles
E-Mail: cdonado@channelone.com
Thoughts/Condolences I highly respected and admired Eleanor as a fellow CWS Teacher and Kadiwa Officer. She was truly a great youth leader inside the Church of Christ. The type of leader anyone would follow into battle. Strong and faithful until the end. She was always that friendly face that would greet you at activities and made you feel welcomed and you just knew that it was genuine. I always looked forward to playing against that girl at basketball tournaments and had the honor of playing alongside her once at an all-star game. It doesn’t amaze me that the loss of our sister has many locales far and wide saddened. She was just one of those people God blessed with the ability to make a difference in this world and with his people. Eleanor’s light will continue to shine in the people she’s inspired, comforted, and loved… She will be missed. My deepest sympathies to her family and friends.
Thursday 08/18/2005 3:53:09pm
Name: Dennis Enriquez & Family
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: DLEnriquez@verizon.net
Thoughts/Condolences She's the greatest friend one can ever have. She always had a smile on her face. She lightens up everyones day. When I heard of the news of her passing, I just couldn't take it. My mom called me crying over the phone, and I just knew that it was about you. It was like a stab that hurt so much. We'll surely miss you. Last time I saw you, you had this big smile on your face. Thank you for being an Ate, and a friend. I even wrote a poem just for you. Hope to see you soon.

You are the best.

Always have a smile.

You are the greatest.

No one can ever come close.


Why is it that great souls leaves us.

Why is it that great lives vanishes.

Why is it she who deserves to live leave.

Why, no one will ever know.


Eleanor, you are the best.

Always have a smile on your face.

Eleanor, you are unique and true,

You are one in a million, nobody else like you.


I thank you for all the kind words you've given me.

I thank you for having an open hand when anyone is in need.

I thank you for caring when nobody else did.

I thank you for just being you.


A great person has left us with just memories.

Memories of her life, to the fullest.

A great friend have gone.

To that special place God has promised.


Last time I saw you, a smile brightens like an angel.

Full of life, love and devotion.

It's as if you are still here, in our presence.

No one will forget, we'll remember forever.


"Condolences to Ka Bobby, Ka Ine, Emylene, & Elisa, Bro. Clint, and to the whole Fermin Family"

The Enriquez Family Mourns with All of You
Thursday 08/18/2005 3:16:13pm
Name: Dorelyn Carreon
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: Jubi1ee@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences Given the time that I got to spend with Ate Eleanor...the most memorable ones were always the funniest! She never failed to make me laugh or help me feel at ease when I freak out!! She was never judgmental and always gave people a chance to shine! My first encounter with her was the fist night I came to Montclair....she asked if I was an organist and she started jumping for joy..So I started practicing again!

She gave me confidence and guidance...she always reminded me of how blessed I was and that I should'nt take it for granted...I cherish that so much!

Thank you for being there for me Ate Eleanor...Thank you for giving me confidence...for allowing me to help you...even if it was small. I miss you so much! I will always love you!
Thursday 08/18/2005 2:56:43pm
Name: Larissa Cui
Locale: Van Nuys CA
E-Mail: larissa_cui@na.dole.com
Thoughts/Condolences When I heard the news of Eleanor’s passing, my heart just dropped. I’ve never felt so much shock of losing a friend that will never be forgotten.

Growing up, I remember spending most of our time with the Fermin sisters, Emirick, and Edel. Iris and Eleanor were so close back then. We used to go mall hoping with Grace and get kicked out for playing on the escalators. Those were the days. We all grew up and went different routes.

The thought of knowing she’s gone is hard for me to grasp, especially because she was too young to leave. But I understand that once we’ve finished our race, our time will come to rest and that time has come for our dear Eleanor.

My heart goes out to you Tito Bobby, Tita Ine, Emylene, and Elisa. My deepest sympathy and condolences to your family.
Thursday 08/18/2005 2:37:38pm
Name: Maggie Abo-Hebeish
Locale: 951-764-7866
E-Mail: Maggie.Abo-Hebeish@invitrogen.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor was a part of some of the most critical years of my life. She was a loving and caring friend. We experienced and shared many adventures together, and was always there for me. Eleanor is in my heart and prayers, and will always be.
Thursday 08/18/2005 1:46:38pm
Name: Richard Ingalla
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: ringalla@arcadianmgt.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor … that smiley face, that cute lil’voice, her funny little ways.
How difficult it is to realize she’s not here anymore. We’ve felt so empty these past few days. I’ve been very close friends with Eleanor ever since she was 12. I felt her loving care for me, even from the start. She would often write me a letter when she would take vacations back home in P.I.. I remember when I used to pick them up from middle-school and she made fun of my clothing, i.e. my looks (whatta meany). We would talk all night while waiting for her mom & dad to finish fulfilling their duties after Wed nite w.s.@SGV. I appreciated her sharing her matters of the heart, and her thoughts about life and friends. I would often comment about her “dimple-hands”, even to this day. I would often give her advice all these years, but sometimes she can be so hard-headed. That‘s just Eleanor … a strong mind, a strong-head, but most times .. simply adorable. My memory of her is the fruit from fun times spent together in the Junior Choir, as Binhi officers, the Senior choir, the Kadiwa, as CWS teachers, and as part of our “barkada”, and because of these that it is so hard to accept that we won’t hear her voice, see her smile, see her sing in the choir-loft, see her walking in the hallways, hear her little giggles … anymore. She was part of what I’ve met. She was my little sister. I just can’t get used to losing her.
To the girl I call “Baby”, I’ll miss you and I love you.
To Ninong Bobby, Ninang Ine, Emylene & Lisa … we’re here for you, you’re in our thoughts, and we love you.
Thursday 08/18/2005 1:33:00pm
Name: July, Celine and John Danganan
Locale: Riverside
E-Mail: lynndanganan@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences To Bro. Bobby, Sis. Ine, Emylene and Eliza.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, May you find GOD as your strenght and comfort in time of your grief.
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:57:41am
Name: Nathaniel 'Ka Tani' Silva
Locale:  
E-Mail: tanisilva@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences My heart goes out to you, Ka Bobby and Ka Ine and your other daughters.I always admired the very good example of Christianity in your family. I could only wish that all the people in the world could be like you... then there would be peace, brotherhood, genuine love and decency among everyone. When Bro Danny Munar told me about Eleanor's passing on, I felt the pain deep in my heart because I am a father, too. I always pray to God that if HE would grant me one wish, just one wish, let it be that I would be able to turn back the hands of time, even for just one half second, so that if my child gets hurt, I'd be able to turn back the time and prevent it from happening. And I am willing to give up my life for that wish to be granted.I will not have the chance to talk to you face to face and discuss the joys of parenthood, the agony of suffering when our children are sick, and the tremendous pain of a loss.Ka Bobby and Ka Ine, may GOD give you the strength that you need. She may have been taken away from you prematurely, but we know that GOD has his own reason for her early departure. Eleanor was lucky for having parents like you, and you were equally blessed for having Eleanor for a daughter.

in Christ,

Tani Silva and children
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:41:28am
Name: Danny Munar
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: dmunar@mwdh2o.com
Thoughts/Condolences She touched our hearts. Accept our deepest sympathy.
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:27:19am
Name: rick & tessie tiangco
Locale: san gabriel
E-Mail: rtiangco@pacificpalmsresort.com
Thoughts/Condolences to ka bobby and ka ine , a deep and loving sympathy for the untimely loss of your daughter. may our GOD console you and your family and extend his continous guidance to you.
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:25:31am
Name: Jean Van Engen
Locale: City of Hope
E-Mail: jvanengen@coh.org
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor's office was just down the hall from mine here at City of Hope. It was always a joy to stop by and speak with her. She had such enthusiasm for life and brought happiness into other's lives. She is the age of my daughters and so it was so much fun to talk with her about what they were experiencing, like future life goals and wedding plans. It is a great comfort to me that Eleanor lived a life of faith in God.
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:19:30am
Name: Lilia de la Merced
Locale: Sacramento
E-Mail: delamerc@csus.edu
Thoughts/Condolences My niece, Eleanor, loved food. When my daughter, Jenny, and I were living with her family back in the 1980's, she would always follow the smell of food all the way to the kitchen and check out what I was cooking. She ate with gusto, whether it was a special dish or just ramen. She was always vibrant, jolly, full of humor, witty, and exuded excitement...she loved life. She will forever be remembered and profoundly missed. Kuya Bob, Ate Ine, Emylene, and Lisa, my deepest sympathy and, at the same time, my applause for having a daughter and a sister that you can eternally be proud of. Love, Baby
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:17:10am
Name: Jason Alipio
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: Jeisyn01@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Ate Eleanor, you have brought so much to those around you. I can only dream of doing what you have already accomplished. You inspired so many of us. Thank you so much for everything. You will live forever in our hearts.
Friends and dear family, I’m having a lot of trouble coping with our loss. It hurts so much. May we find comfort with those around us, and may we comfort them in turn. May God guide us through this all, and may we all finish our race as well as she.
Clint, I have not cried in so long, I now find myself drowning in my own tears. I cannot fathom what your going through right now. I’ve always, always looked up to you. I do not know what to say, or what to do to help. All I can say is what I feel, that I’m happy you’re a part of my life.
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:14:58am
Name: Rey,Donna,Jongi,Ian,Cason,Kirsten
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: rey.gemeniano@nutrilite.com
Thoughts/Condolences I know that this time is extremely hard and unbearable, but we are praying that our Almighty God gives each of you the comfort that you so desperately need at this time in your lives. May God be with you all as you grieve and heal, cling to Him and one another.
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:03:07am
Name: Nancy Sherman
Locale: City of Hope
E-Mail: Nsherman@coh.org
Thoughts/Condolences I dont even know where to begin... What an amazing, amazing girl. I was fortunate enough to meet Eleanor in October 2004. We were instant friends. She always had time to help me with work, to share a laugh and play a practical joke, to exchange stories about our wonderful boyfriends, to run to the mall at lunch for shoes and a crepe or a Robeks smoothie, work on our pilates, and talk about her family, and friends. These memories comfort me during this time when my heart is heavy.My life is better because she was in it.
Thursday 08/18/2005 12:01:35am
Name: Erma Cui-Alalayin
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: ecalalayin@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor's death had touched my heart deeply. I don't know why but it did. We're not as closed but I remember her sweetness whenever she sees me which is not often. I'm truly going to miss her but I'm glad she had left me with good memories.
Thursday 08/18/2005 11:22:18am
Name: Cookie Palmer
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: coopalm@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor II was an exceptional person who positively touched the lives of everyone she met. She was definitely an over acheiver. Many people will live a full life and not accomplish what she did in her 28 years of life. I am so happy to have had the pleasure of having her enrich my life. I will truly miss her. My heart goes out to the family, I love you all.
Regards,
Cookie
Thursday 08/18/2005 11:05:11am
Name: OWIE COLINA
Locale: MONTCLAIR
E-Mail: OWIEC@MSN.COM
Thoughts/Condolences I CONSIDER HER AS A PERSON FULL OF IDEAS AND VIBRANT LEADER OF THE YOUTH.I SAW HER GREW UP ALWAYS PERFORMING HER DUTIES IN THE CHURCH.A MODEL OF ENCOURAGEMENT AND SUPPORT TO OTHERS.SHE ALWAYs LAUGH AT MY JOKES SPECIALLY WHEN SHE IMITATES MY CHAKA-CHAKA JOKES.SHE IS THE ONLY ONE I AM VERY COMFORTABLE SINGING WITH IN WEDDING CEREMONIES.MY FAMILY WILL MISS HER A LOT BUT I KNOW SHE IS VERY LUCKY BECAUSE SHE FINISHED HER COURSE TRUE TO HER DUTY IN SERVING GOD.MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO HER FAMILY.
Thursday 08/18/2005 10:48:48am
Name: Jane Sauli
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: jkdayto@csupomona.edu
Thoughts/Condolences Ate Eleanor was such a wonderful and beautiful person. I can't help but smile when I remember her. She was always full of positive energy, always smiling. She was accomplished in everything she did; in school, in work, and most especially in church. She had so many responsibilities but she was always able to balance everything; from work and school to all her duties in the church: choir leader, organist, cws teacher, kadiwa president, kadiwa district officer, she did it all. I remember all the times that I would doubt myself, especially as an organist and she would always be there to give me advice, encouraging me to do my best. She was one of the people that I looked up to the most and she will always be an inspiration to me. Everyone who knew her can say that they have taken something positive from knowing her and having her presence among us. I pray for all her family and friends and everyone who knew her. We just have to remember that she was blessed her whole life and she will soon receive the ultimate blessing of eternal life on judgement day. She will truly be missed. I love you Ate Eleanor.
Thursday 08/18/2005 10:40:30am
Name: Lisa dela Merced
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: lisadelamerced@irishteam.com
Thoughts/Condolences I will always remember Eleanor as being the "life of the party" and a dynamic leader who dedicated so much of her life in service of the Lord. I have always admired her for these qualities. She has touched many lives and made countless friends. She has been and always will be an inspiration.

Tito Bob, Tita Ine, Emylene, Lisa, and Clint... I have no words to express how very sorry I am. I share your loss in Eleanor's passing, but will forever celebrate the beauty, happiness and richness of her life - a life we were all fortunate enough to be part of.
Thursday 08/18/2005 10:24:15am
Name: Yolleta Fomocod
Locale: Long Beach
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences I've been fortunate to have worked with Eleanor through out these years in the church. We were together when we did the leadership training and when we were officers in the district Binhi and KADIWA organizations. I will always remember her to be really funny with such quick wit. She was also a great mastermind of tricks and was one of the best mafia facilitator--a game we often played after our meeting and district KADIWA visitations.

The last time I spoke to her was during the district CWS teacher's class in July, and I remember we kept laghing and making jokes--just because. When we said good-bye, I didn't think that would be the last time, but looking back, I'm so glad that I got to see her before she passed away. We miss her now and will always miss her. I thank God for having met her. She was and will always be a GREAT INSPIRATION.

To Ka Bobby, Ka Ine, Emylene, Lisa and Clint and the rest of the Fermin family, we share in your time of sadness. She loved you all so very much, her family was her inspiration. We know that there are no words we can say that can fill that void in your hearts, but know that you are all in our prayers and everything will be okay. God Bless po.
Thursday 08/18/2005 10:12:25am
Name: Jay and Grace Acuña
Locale: South San Diego
E-Mail:  
Thoughts/Condolences Condolences po. We'll try to visit you there.
Thursday 08/18/2005 10:01:54am
Name: Regine De Leon
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: GiNeDL@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Gosh, where do I start? One thing I remember about Ate Eleanor, is that everytime I needed to go over the alto in any hymn she would always be the one to stay behind after choir practice and she would go over the alto line with me. I remember those practices when we were still in the jr. choir, and Ate Eleanor would always ALWAYS remind us that we should sing our hymns as if we ourselves wrote them. I always laugh everytime she teaches in the CWS worship service because she always has funny jokes or funny examples to say. I remember when Ate Emylene and I were going to school for dialysis in Glendale, we would always pass by Ate Eleanor when we were stuck in traffic. We would call her cell phone and we'd say, "I see you!" and then she'd find us and we'd keep waving at each other, hehe. Oh! One thing I will NEVER EVER forget...is how Ate Eleanor and I would always tease each other on who has the biggest butt! We would be passing by each other in the chapel and I would spank her butt and she would always say, "HOW DARE YOU! DON'T YOU EVER!" and she would try to get back at me by spanking my butt too! Ate Eleanor is one beautiful person all around, and I shall NEVER EVER forget her.
Thursday 08/18/2005 10:00:28am
Name: Bro. Ronnie & Sis. Odeza Agagas
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: deck414@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences Dear Ka Bobby, Ka Ine, Lisa, Emylene and Clint,

We can only imagine the pain that you must be going through. You have been in our thoughts and prayers since we found out that Eleanor was in the hospital.

We regret the loss but we all know that she has completed her work here with flying colors.

Ronnie & Odeza
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:54:11am
Name: Ryan M. Santos
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: rsantos405@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences I want to give my deepest condolences to the Fermin family and to brother Clint. My family and I share your pain in this time of grieving. We also loved her. Speaking for myself though I was totally devasted by the news of what happened. I still can't believe it. Even though Eleanor and I haven't talked in a while or even hung out I still feel the pain of her passing. Knowing her and having her as my sister and friend in the church was one of the greatest blessings God has ever given me. She had a huge influence on my life and the way I picture things now as an adult. She was the one of the most important voices I listened to growing up. She kept me on the straight and narrow. She is one the people in church that helped keep my faith strong and so I'm still a member to this day. I still can't believe she's gone. It hurts so deeply. I know God has his reasons for calling her to him so early. It still hurts though. I extend my hand to the her family meaning if there is ANYTHING they need from me. . . .I'll do whatever it takes to oblige. It's the least I can do to repay Eleanor for her love and kindness. I just wish I could've kept the lines of communication open between us.

-Ryan S.
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:51:31am
Name: Mirasol D. Sauli
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: MSauli@schmidvoiles.com
Thoughts/Condolences The last time I saw Eleanor was a couple of weeks ago in the chapel. She introduced me to Clint's sister and brother-in-law, and their kids. Eleanor was just beaming with happiness and excitement that day. I looked at her and in my mind I imagined her having a baby of her own that I could kiss and hug as she is getting married this coming January and I thought to myself, this girl, even though she will be busy with her own family she will continue carrying on with her duties at church as that is how she is! . . . it just breaks my heart that she is now gone . . . I will miss her terribly!!!!
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:42:57am
Name: Jennifer Lugue
Locale: South San Diego
E-Mail: jlugue@gmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences My deepest condolences to the Fermin and Dela Merced family. May God give your family strength during this time of great grief.
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:35:03am
Name: Glenn and Mirasol Fortich & Family
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: mirasol.s.fortich.@questdiagnostics.com
Thoughts/Condolences It was always a delight to see her face when she walks through the chapel, performing her duties. She seems to light and cheer up the room with her smile and spunkiness.

Condolence to Mr and Mrs Bobby Fermin and family. May God Bless everyone who touched her life and those who she touched.

From: Glenn and Mirasol Fortich & Family
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:31:06am
Name: Ding, Pam, and Allysia Fermin
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: ding1204@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences You will always be in our hearts, Eleanor.
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:19:41am
Name: Richwell Correa
Locale: South San Diego
E-Mail: richwell@correaweb.com
Thoughts/Condolences I will always remember, that she was the first person, other than my family members, that I was going to propose to my, now wife, girlfriend. She was so happy for me. I told her not to tell anyone until I proposed. She kept her promise.

When she told me she was engaged, I was so happy for her!! Clint and Eleanor was the perfect couple.=)

She always made me smile every time I saw her. She was just that person you wanted be around with. Now she is gone...I will truly miss a good friend.

This picture was the last time I saw her.

http://www.correaweb.com/eleanor.jpg

Condolences to the family…May God Bless…
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:12:16am
Name: Mariel Villanueva
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: mvillaneuva@acorneng.com
Thoughts/Condolences My Family's sincere condolences to the Fermin and dela Merced Clan...

I've known Eleanor since 1989 and I have seen her transformed into a very bright and beautiful daughter of God. I will miss her dearly... Mariel
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:06:07am
Name: Raechelle
Locale: City of Hope
E-Mail: rtinsley@coh.org
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor was my family. I woke up to her face every morning and she was one of the last people I saw every night. We worked together for 5 years....sharing an office. I got to be blessed with her presence every single day. I was honored to be touched by her short life. I'm trying to find peace in all of this and I'm struggling. I laugh at the memories we created together, and I cry that I'll never make more. God I miss her. My heart goes out to her mom and dad.......she spoke of you daily with such respect and love. My heart goes out to Elisa and Emylene....her sisters were her life. I'll never forget laughing when her Ate would call her a million times at work making Eleanor laugh as they teased and tormented each other. And then there was her baby sister. I remember when I met her, Eleanor was just so excited to be showing her off. I remember laughing when Eleanor would call her at work acting like a customer. I remember being jealous that she had such a tight knit family. She was also SO in love. Clint, I don't even have the words...there was no eleanor without Clint and no Clint without Eleanor. You were just as much a part of our office as Eleanor. You always knew to call right when Dina came in the office. And you came to most of our lunches with us. Eleanor talked about you nearly every second of every day here. And you made her dreams come true the night you got engaged. Thank you for making my friend so happy. My heart will be forever broken. Eleanor.....I love you.
Raechelle Tinsley
Thursday 08/18/2005 9:05:55am
Name: Amber & Alan Domine
Locale: Vista, CA
E-Mail: ambercitas@hotmail.com
Thoughts/Condolences Eleanor was more than just my friend, she was my "sis"--my sister. She always had a way of making you want to get up and do something, be active, and I loved that about her. I can still see her smile, it was that infectious.

To Tito Bobby, Tita Ine, Emylene, Elisa and Clint - Alan and I would like to extend our deepest condolences for your loss. We continue to pray for our Lord God to give you strength and comfort during this difficult time. We will really miss her.

Amber & Alan Domine
Thursday 08/18/2005 8:59:45am
Name: Jeffrey Munar
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: jeff.munar@tropicana.com
Thoughts/Condolences My condolences to Ka Bobby, Ka Ine, Emylene, Lisa, Clint, and the whole Fermin Family

She was more than a friend,
more than a leader,
more than a teammate,
more than a teacher,

She was, is, and will always be
an INSPIRATION!!!
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:40:37am
Name: Adino and Eileen Flores
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: eileenlflores@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our prayers are with Ka Bob and Ka Ine and their family in this difficult time.
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:28:56am
Name: Michael & Edel Danganan
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: mldang@msn.com
Thoughts/Condolences Our condolences go out to Ninong Bob, Ninang Ine, Emylene, Lisa, Clint and the rest of the Fermin and De La Merced families.

What we remember about Eleanor is her smile. Everytime we talked to her she would always be in a cheerful mood. She will surely be missed by everyone.

Sincerely,
Mike, Edel, Evan, and Madison
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:12:56am
Name: Abigail Fermin Sorto
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: abbie.s@lorensigns.com
Thoughts/Condolences I remember the good times we had growing up, playing hide and seek and just being kids. When I heard of her passing, I didn't know how to feel, but now, more than ever, I feel envy, because even though she only had a short time here on earth, she had everything and was everything I could ever hope for. Loving family, caring future mate, blessed office in the church and a secured spot in the Holy City. Our prayers and love to Tito Bob, Tita Ine, Emylene and Lisa.
Thursday 08/18/2005 7:12:09am
Name: Loie Ingalla & family
Locale: Montclair
E-Mail: lingalla@abpa-tpa.com
Thoughts/Condolences I will always remember her vibrant and playful personality that infected everyone. Richard and I love her like a little sister. She has left a huge hole in our hearts. She will always remain in our thoughts and our hearts.

I pray for strength and comfort for the family and friends she has left behind. This is a very difficult time for each of us, but we will get through this together. God loves Eleanor so much that He took her at the peak of her activeness in the church. There is no denying her salvation. I pray that we will all meet the same fate when that time comes. We love you, Eleanor, forever and ever! We will miss you so much!
Thursday 08/18/2005 6:44:47am
Name: Donna F. Gemeniano
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: donna.g@lorensigns.com
Thoughts/Condolences God blessed us with 28 beautiful years with Eleanor. It will be hard not to miss such a kind, sincere and generous lady. Tito Bob, Tita Ine, Emylene and Elisa.....we love you!
Thursday 08/18/2005 6:14:11am
Name: Joy & Ferdie San Antonio
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: JSan@spt.com
Thoughts/Condolences We remember Eleanor as a happy person. She always greet you with her smiling face and was respectful to the elders.
She will be surely missed.
A hearthfelt Condolence to her families.
Our thoughts and prayers are with them and may GOD give them enough strength in their time of grief.
Thursday 08/18/2005 3:30:42am
Name: Steven Kroll and family
Locale: Southeastern Seaboard, USA
E-Mail: svkroll@yahoo.com
Thoughts/Condolences To the Fermin family: Our hearts are with you during this very trying time in your life. Our inspiration:
I Cor. 15:51-54
51 Behold, I tell you a mystery: We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed;
52 in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed.
53 For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality.
54 So when this corruptible has put on incorruption, and this mortal has put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written: "Death is swallowed up in victory."
Thursday 08/18/2005 1:26:13am
Name: Mely Danganan
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: ALDanganan@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences The last time I saw Eleanor was in December, 2004 at the Fremont Chapel. She attended Worship Services there also. When she saw us after the service, she just did not leave us, she was with us as we were shown around, took pictures, and visited with friends.
I can not forget her candid and loving ways. Everytime she saw me she would give me a hug as she said "Hi Tita, how are you". Then last Saturday, Aug. 13th
when I heard what had happened to her in Tennessee, I could not help but shed some tears. Yes, we will miss Eleanor (Baby) as she was fondly called. And to her family, please accept my sincerest regards and condolences.
Wednesday 08/17/2005 9:57:52pm
Name: Arlene Danganan
Locale: San Gabriel Valley
E-Mail: Pungkin@aol.com
Thoughts/Condolences I can remember when I first met Eleanor. It was in 1978 when my family went back for our first trip to the PI. My family was invited to go out to dinner w/ Tito Bob and Tita Ine. We met them at their house. Both Eleanor and Emylene were still awake. While we were taking pictures, Eleanor was allowing each one of us to hold her. Barely knowing us, she nonetheless hugged and kissed each of us as if she had really known us. I have never forgotten Eleanor's trusting and open heart that she showed us that evening. I will truly miss Eleanor's outgoing personality. She was always so bubbly and energetic.

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Eleanor's family. Please always remember that Eleanor died a fortunate death for she was still an active member and officer inside the Iglesia Ni Cristo. Eleanor will be one of those who will be raised by our Lord Jesus when He will return on His second coming.
Wednesday 08/17/2005 3:10:10pm
Name: Carlos, Eunice, Ethan and Cole Tiangco
Locale: Houston
E-Mail: ectiangco@yahoo.com
Thoughts: A bubbly character, a ready smile and a positive disposition - the Eleanor that we will always remember.

Our deepest and profound sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time of loss and sadness.
Wednesday 08/17/2005 2:18:52pm
Name: Emily Calbes
Locale: SGV
E-Mail: emilycalbes@yahoo.com
Thoughts: I remember Eleanor to be the life of the party. She always puts a smile on people's faces. She loved to cuddle with her family and close friends. Eleanor was always smiling.

I really didn't know her but I admired her devotion and her passion for her duty and for her family.

To Ka Bobby and Ka Ene, Emylene and Elisa, God bless you and may he give you all the strength that you need.

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